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So, I am a second-generation immigrant from a very traditional and conservative country, now living in one of the most liberal Western countries in the world. I am very grateful to be living here as the quality of life and opportunities are just a lot better; however, needless to say, the cultural differences are immense.

One of the things that always bothered me growing up was this "rush" to lose your virginity, especially as a guy. My friends would drag me along to clubs and stuff, and I'm not a bad-looking guy by any means, and opportunities for me to have "one-night stands" have presented themselves, but I never really had any interest in this.

Call me corny, but the idea of being intimate with someone I do not have a very strong emotional connection with, someone who couldn't be my wife in the future, did not appeal to me.

Guys talk about this stuff, and I am open about this in my friend group as I don't feel like lying about it, but I find myself being the subject of "virgin" jokes quite often, especially considering my age (which isn't an abnormal thing in my home country).

Now, I know it's all in good fun and I know they have no malicious intent, but I can't help but wonder if this would be a problem for potential future mates. So my question to you girls is, if a guy you were dating in his mid to late twenties said he was a virgin, would you immediately associate that with negative attributes? Would this be a problem or perhaps not your first choice, would you be indifferent or heck even prefer it?

It seems like a pretty popular argument online is to show pictures of him with Jeffery Epstein. I mean they were both rich and knew each other before all the horrible stuff about Epstein came out, so I don't really get the point? It doesn't seem like solid evidence Trump went to the island or did inappropriate things with children...

Aside from that Trump has been accused of rape or sexual assault by various people. The common argument is that with multiple women coming forward, they're unlikely to ALL be plain lying. But still, if the evidence was there wouldn't he be in jail? With a certain amount of wealth and power you can avoid consequences for your actions but that can only go so far, I mean Epstein still landed up in jail eventually. On top of that, Trump has equally wealthy and powerful people who hate him and would do anything to lock him up. If there was really proof he committed heinous crimes wouldn't he be in jail right now?

I may come off as ignorant as I haven't looked too deep into this one way or the other, but I'm open to opinions from anyone.