Why did his family lie to me?

[Anonymous]

I been asking him is he married but his family claimed that they didn’t know her. I found out that he’s married and been married to the girl. He’s been lying about who he was this entire time. I asked his aunt who she was and she deleted the wife from Facebook. She kept asking the wife “ who are you” in the Facebook comments. he’s been married for many years now

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh damn sis, that is messed up! I cannot believe his whole family lied to you like that. You did not deserve to be treated that way at all.

I know you must be feeling super hurt and betrayed right now. But please don't blame yourself - you did not do anything wrong by trusting what they told you. This is entirely on them for choosing deception over honesty.

My advice would be to cut contact completely with all of them. You don't need that kind of shady energy in your life. Also be careful - who knows what else they might try now that you know the truth.

Give yourself time to heal from this. Lean on your real friends who have your back. And going forward, always trust your gut if something seems off. You'll get through this stronger, girl! You deserve so much better than people who lie like that. Keep your head up - better things are coming for you, I know it!

[TommyMountainFigure]

The only answer I can come up with is because they are scum, and he is very much a part of that family!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you for MHO.

[Finchie40]

Because most families don’t like to admit that their family member is a piece of shit , Blood is thicker than water basically