My crush lie to his parents and his father scolded me?

[Anonymous]

So I have been crushing on this guy for more than one year now, recently I left some gifts at his house (no one opened the door) and his father found them. When his parents questioned him, he lied saying that I was nagging him and that he was not interested. The following week I went to see him again, his father opened the door and when he heard my name he scolded me severely. Both his parents against me and then on a whim he rejected me saying that I have childhood trauma. He is inexperienced in relationship (27 and only one relationship) and immature. But what he did is wrong, I don't want to encourage his behaviour. what should I do, stick with him guide him and confront his parents (he has been living a lie since 2018 when his ex left him) or let go move on?

[ToastyOats]

Woah that's sick. His parents ran a young lady that likes their son away. If I was his father I would have slapped him upside the head and told him to not be an idiot! I'd give up on thta tho, sersly

[Asker]

haha... unfortunately this is what happened... I gave up!

[ToastyOats]

My Dad would invite you in and have you try all the different pickled vegetables from his garden with local cheese and crackers. I'm probably out of your league but that's more what I'd be looking for anyway.

[Asker]

Well with my first boyfriend his family welcomed me with open arms, I did not anticipate anything like this but yeah not all people are nice and you cannot force people to accept you. I kept my hope for 1 year but now nah.. move on... his loss!

[ToastyOats]

What part of the country do you live in?

[Anonymous]

Let go and move on. He said himself he doesn't want a relationship with you. No means no. You can't force someone to be in a relationship they aren't interested in.

[Asker]

Very true, thanks :)

[Ms_Vanderquack]

What you do is get over yourself, accept the fact that he isn't interested, and stop stalking him.

[Asker]

I want to confront his father and tell him all the lies that his son has been telling. I know that guy since more than 1 year, fair enough that he does not like me but he should not live a lie. what do you think about this idea?

[Asker]

also tell his dad that he has no right to scold a stranger.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Well, you are going to end up in jail. Let me know what it's like.