Guys, His friend told me my boyfriend lies?

[Anonymous]

In the beginning of our relationship our mutual friend warned that my boyfriend tells lies, that he's exaggerates and to take it slow with him. He went to a club with this mutual friend and didn't tell me until the next day when he decided to finally answer. Well i told my boyfriend on Saturday about what our friend said because i have been feeling like i can't trust my boyfriend especially after this last time which was the third time he pulled that stunt of ignoring me on a Saturday till Sunday and not saying anything. I told him I wouldn't do a fourth time so i broke up with him yesterday morning. He said nothing until last night. He texted me to say he thought a lot about what I told him our friend said. Then that was it, i assume he fell asleep because it was late but I'm feeling pretty shitty. Any advice guys

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Our friend was right. Ignored me on Saturday because they went to a club that our friend invited me to go to and he lied and said I didn't want to come

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yes. He lied, and now you don't trust him. How can you have a happy relationship with someone you don't trust?

You cannot! I say you did the right thing.

[Asker]

My friend told me he told my boyfriend to invite me out Saturday. They went to a club. My boyfriend told him I turned down the invite 😔

[boggboss]

You shouldn't have told him what the feiend said i understand your relationship is rocky but throwing the friend under the bus would just make more drama

[Asker]

I'm honestly really upset with our friend.. he said that in the beginning and according to my now ex the only nice thing he had to say about me was that I'm horny and a freak. This sale. friend sat between us in an Uber when his date ditched him and at a party he came up to me and said that my now ex is his boyfriend and i can have him two days a week.

[boggboss]

So u went on into that was not even solid

[Asker]

I'm sorry, i didn't understand your comment

[boggboss]

If the friend that told u that is not trust worthy why would u believe them

[Asker]

I've known this friend since we were teenagers. He's like a cousin to me. Our families know eachother. I wasn't sure if he was looking out for me or if he was jealous. My now ex baby mom that i didn't know about also called me and told me he's a pathological liar... so my head was all mixed up i didn't know who to trust. I do and did feel bad and told my ex that it hurt me to tell him what was said because he's both our friend.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Good thing you broke up with him. He didn't seem to be too trustworthy. One shouldn't ignore their partner the way your boyfriend did.

[Asker]

Do you think the mutual friend was sabotaging the relationship. He came up to me at a party and was like he's my boyfriend you can have him on the weekend.

[ItsTheNephilim]

I don't generally advice to take such people (like this friend) seriously but he seemed to be true about your boyfriend.