I said my boyfriend im pregnant but actually im not this is the most cliché lie but we were constantly breaking up but he always come back but this time he did not so i told him im pregnant he comforted me even though he was not happy i dont know what to do i eish i hadn't said such a thing he will never forgive me
Yep. He won't forgive you because this is pretty much the worst thing you can do.
Let me explain:
1. You lied, so he can't trust you. If a man can't trust his woman, she is WORTHLESS to him.
2. You manipulated him. Again, if a man can't trust his woman, she is WORTHLESS to him.
3. You did something selfish which means you are immature and put yourself above the couple.
Do yourself a favor by "cleansing your soul".
1. Tell him the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth about your lying about pregnancy. Don't bother explaining why unless he asks because, really, it's irrelevant.
2. Be honestly contrite.
3. Do the honorable thing and terminate the relationship.
4. Do a lot of "looking in the mirror" - that is do some introspection about your behavior, why you did it, and working on your self-discipline and immaturity.
5. After 2 to 3 years of penance, introspection, and personal growth, THEN you can get a new boyfriend.
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It sounds like you want to get pregnant... have you considered getting pregnant by another guy? You'd be surprised by how many wimps would love to be in a relationship with a woman who has gotten pregnant by someone else, and they'll be happy to support you and your new baby, even if you don't let them have sex with you. Seriously.
Wake up! 🙄 Why would you even want a guy like that? You are a woman, stop chasing anyone. He's not even worth it.
That is so f ing messed up to lie about being pregnant. No one should ever tell such a lie
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I'm sorry but that was not OK. Apologize to him, then leave and be a better person in the future so you are deserving of someone.
He will probably never forgive you, but if you never do anything like this again, you can forgive yourself.So somehow this will prevent you from breaking up again sorry are u stupid
If you are constantly breaking up, he's the wrong guy.
End it, and never lie to an SO ever again.Wow... if I ever found out that my girl lied about being pregnant, I would run for the hills.
Im interested on how your planning on getting yourself out of this
Tell him you lied, then leave
This is VERY wrong of you and it is a toxic relationship
Yeah... lying to him is a great way to fix a relationship. 🙄
Why would you ever lie about being pregnant? When he finds out he will leave you for good.
thats not something Id want to find out later, when he finds out I be hard pressed he would stay
If you tell a man you are pregnant as a manipulative way of keeping him, You are a horrible person
Maybe he would be relieved
I feel sorry for the baby!
You done fucked up
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