Is my guy friend lying?

[Deimy]

I asked my guy friend why he is so nervous with me but outgoing with others. He replied:" cause I don' t like you as a crush". Why? He used to flirt with me, compliment my outfit, pay attention to details about me, remember that I said, joking about sex with me, being protective over me.

[PrudentGuy]

Let me gather your points and correct me if I'm wrong:

1) "He used to... flirt, etc"? Does it mean he was not nervous in the past?

2) recently he staryed to become "nervous" and stop doing those things?

3) then he excused himself that you're more than a crush?

If all are Yes, and you had sex already, then

I think he's 75% lying 25% truthful.

But if you not yet had sex, then

I think he's 25% lying 75% truthful. (With the desire to have sex now.)

Hence you evaluate if you want to continue the relationship. His desire is all sex now. The rest are acting.

[Deimy]

He flirted in the group with me but was nervous when we were just two. I asked him why he is nervous just with me and he said that he does not like me. I said: you don' t like me but initiate contact? He said: I don' t like you as a crush.

[SandandWaves]

He's nervous, Because.. he likes you. Something is going on... I would just give it some time..

[SandandWaves]

thanks for MHO ;)

[Anonymous]

I think he's struggling with his feelings about you

[DesolateRain]

Yeah, he's fucking lying to you.

[skander98]

Leave him and get away from him

[hadiluxury]

Yes, he is lying