Search Results: ways to approach guys

Why do I keep feeling the ick towards the men I try to date?

I didn’t know what it was until today but The ick is basically when someone your dating does/says something that gives you an uncontrollable feeling of cringe towards them. Some reasons for getting the ick could be really...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

What Should I Do Next?

I approached this guy I met on campus a few months back. I walked up to him in the cafeteria while on campus. I was going to the Starbucks on campus with a friend of mine when I spotted him. He was sitting by himself on...

MelaninQueen21

Xper 5 Age: 26

Dating

Girls, How do you prefer men to approach you?

Speaking as an extremely introverted guy, it can be quite difficult for me to approach women. It becomes quite difficult for me to truly grasp the line between. - Being confident, but not too cocky - Being flirty,...

MasterChef116

Xper 1 Age: 35

Dating

I'm in love with my best friend. What is the best way to approach him?

Okay so I've known this guy for over 15 years now and we have been friends for the most part of it. He is a doctor so he has a really busy life. We don't talk as much but I really want him to know how I feel. So...

sallyalex

Xper 4 Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Does this guy like me?

I am 36 and don't think I'm very pretty or have much luck with men, but this guy at work has for the past 5 years been finding ways to touch me, staring at me (when he thinks I'm not looking), looking my body up and down,...

Allie02

Xper 2 Age: 41

Dating

Is it okay to go on dates with people you’re not physically attracted to or don’t see a future with?

I don’t see any harm on going on a date with someone new to get to know them, however, I was also wandering if it’s in any way ‘leading someone on’ if you go out on a date with them? I’m asking because over the...

nocturnalbaby

Xper 5 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Why do many girls have their defenses up in the nightclubs? How does a guy approach a girl at a nightclub to make her feel more at ease?

I know some girls aren't like this, but a lot definitely are. Guys can vouch for me. Girls do not respond the same way as they do in the daytime. Some thing that can make her feel amazing in the daytime won't work the...

Rab1901

Yoda Age: 35

I know some girls aren't like this, but a lot definitely are. Guys can vouch for me. Girls do not respond the same way as they do in the daytime. Some thing that can make her feel

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Dating

Is it worth it to wait for a guy who's waiting for me too, but we lost our paths and contacts due to some unavoidable reasons?

I came to know that he's waiting for me through some mediator. But we have no way to know how to approach each other. We are not in contact with each other. We moved to different countries. We absolutely don't know about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

At Home

What it’s like for me (18y/o autistic girl) to talk to people in school // basically just a rant

So basically, I don’t. talking to people in real life is practically impossible unless they approach me. because I just can’t speak or find words for anyone I don’t know. And besides, I’m the weird artist girl. Not the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Guy's Behavior

My girlfriend flirted with a waiter and this is what I did?

My girlfriend was blushing and flirting with a waiter one night at dinner, I didn’t like it. Instead of being jealous and upset I did something different. I said to my girlfriend: “you were pretty flirty, you...

joshctlee

Xper 6 Age: 34

Dating

When did you find your "game" with women?

For you guys who are able to approach and able to move into a relationship. When did you find your way of getting to this point? I say this in terms of knowing she was into you, knowing what to say, what to do and being...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What problem he has with me?

I have feelings for this guy. when He first approached me he was kind, sweet and welcoming after some minutes into the conversation he was very sexual and I did not like it so. I ignored it but he did not get get the hint...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Approaching girls at the club?

Whats the best way to approach girls at the club solo or with a group of them. I hear that girls don’t like to be a approached when their in a group but I also see random guys come from behind to grind on them and they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How do I ask this guy I want his baby?

I want a plantonic co parent relationship with this guy , I want to pass on his family genes. I know this may sound crazy but that’s what I want and I don’t know how to approach him with this without creeping him out or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How do you handle a friend who is mean to others?

So I’m friends with this girl who doesn’t like this man wife at all. The guy mom doesn’t like her either but under the assumption she doesn’t have nothing. The guy lied to his mom about who his wife was because they seem...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why is he keeping me a secret?

I have been seeing this guy now close to 3 months and we live about 1 1/2 hrs away from eachother but he has been making the effort to come see me each week. We talk everyday sometimes all day even as we work. He is in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Trying to get this girls attention?

After awhile of checking this girl out at the gym, I decided to try and get her attention. I should mention that even at my age I’m more of an introvert/shy person (yes I know a bad combination for a guy looking for a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Are dating apps a good way to finding a long term relationship?

People have told me they are, most have said it’s geared towards hookups. 27F, it’s normally assumed that women have it easier but I’m not one of those women. I have to use apps because guys never approach me in person,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

People have told me they are, most have said it’s geared towards hookups. 27F, it’s normally assumed that women have it easier but I’m not one of those women. I have to use apps

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Flirting

Girls, How would I approach a girl to start a conversation?

So 2022 rolls by and my New Years resolution is all about self-improvement this year I want to lose the weight I gained during lockdown, gain more muscles, get help with my depression, improve my social anxiety, and...

HiAmyou

Xper 4 Age: 31

Flirting

Ladies, would you like to be approached in the gym? If so, what would be an acceptable approach?

Last night, I caught this cute girl staring at me in the gym. She looked like Megan Fox in her Transformers days. I was finishing up with my bench press when I first caught her staring. She was in an open area doing an ab...

Anonymous

(30-35)