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How to handle living with someone my boyfriend asked out?

Before my boyfriend met me, he was friends with this girl. I didn’t know until she moved in, that my boyfriend knew her, or that he asked her out. She is a friend of a friend. Anyways, the girl moved in. My boyfriend was...
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The strained relations between Asian-Americans and liberals explained

Read this before you read the rest of the take: Politics aren’t black and white, everyone is different. It’s not a matter of what side you are on, it’s a matter of how much you support said side or whether you even...
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The Quarter Life Crisis!

At the age of 25, I’ve come to realise that there is an aspect of life that nobody warns you about. I don’t think any adult as I was growing up ever mentioned their 20s as being a time of horror or confusion. We always...
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Should I maybe delete instagram off of my phone?

While my body image has improved over the years, I still admittedly catch myself comparing how I look to other girls -- how I wish I was as thin as them, as pretty as them, those kind of stupid and vain things. Instagram...
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My opinions on "Beauty."

So I saw this myTake recently called "Being Attractive can be a Mixed Blessing for Girls and Bullying" And the title itself wasn't bad, but then I started to see a lot of recurring themes ... Narcissistic themes that is....
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Do appearances correlate to being egotistical or narcissistic?

Im curious what others may have to say on something like this. I consider myself someone who puts a lot of time and effort into my appearance, healthy hair, haircut, acne free skin, straight white teeth, personal style...
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Is she being a shady friend. Should I keep being her friend?

One of my work friends takes vids of me that are not so good and saves it on her phone. Also has posted it on her my story before. I told her recently that I don't like her doing this but she was kind of like Kay...
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How to stop comparing myself to pretty girls?

I've always had low self-esteem due to people hurting me and bullying me in my past. I'm also a trauma survivor... even my parents abused me. The last guy I dated physically and emotionally abused me. He pounded the idea...
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Do you fear more for yourself or others?

I have been thinking too much lately and I have came to a conclusion about the question above. I fear more for others than myself. Example Your in a store and someone comes in to rob it. Are you the kind to be up for...
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My friend is very pretty and shallow, and it can be hard hanging with her?

I have for the longest time had self esteem/body dismorphia but with the face, not the body. Started at maybe 13-14 and I am now 23, it hasn't changed much and has def been a working progress in a world obsessed with...
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Reality Check for Short Girls

DISCLAIMER: This is my first time writing a myTake in a savage tone 😅 so please give your feedback on how you like it and if there is any other way that I can improve, cause I don't expect it to be good the first time....
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Have you ever hated or felt ashamed of your skin colour?

I’m fairly tan due to my ethnicity and this has, many times, made me feel resentful towards my ethnicity and skin colour. From a young age, I was told not to spend too much time Under the Sun otherwise I would become...
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Are you afraid of romantic intimacy?

I myself can't wrap my head around the idea of wanting to be close to and show/get physical affection, and I feel a little left out because of it sometimes (comparing to friends that tell about they're cuddling session...
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I myself can't wrap my head around the idea of wanting to be close to and show/get physical affection, and I feel a little left out because of it sometimes (comparing to friends that Show More
Yes: I feel timid when someone wants to get close to me or even touch me, in a romantic manner.
Slightly: I am usually open to affection but sometimes feel uncomfortable with it.
Not much: I feel that overwhelmed with affection on rare occasions, but other than that I welcome it.
Not at all: I see intimacy and showing affection as a very natural thing.
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Finding a good guy who wants something serious, its borderline impossible?

I want to date, I want something that could lead to something serious, but i just dont seem to able to meet anyone. I dont really know what it is, maybe im picking the wrong guys or maybe its something else. My sister on...
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Struggles I Go Through For Being Skinny

Hey hey hey! So, I was just kind of thinking about all of these things today and decided that I'll post it... I think that a lot of people sort of assume that skinny people wouldn't have to go through much like bigger...
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I'm living in constant fear and I dont know how to get out of it?

So what felt like my more adult birthday happened a week ago and I had made some easy plans to hang with my friends and chill, I tried to make it sound appealing to them and offer all these things they wanted but as time...
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20 Ways On How To Annoy A Scandinavian

WARNING! This MyTake isn't meant to be taken too seriously and has a lot of exaggeration in it. Some are also based on stereotypes and jokes associated with Scandinavia. Other things are real to an extent, but don't...
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How can I feel relaxed and happy being alone?

During this year my brothers and sisters moved outside the country being only me the one that remains. I'm currently doing graduate studies and the stress and "isolation" of academic life isn't playing a lot in my favor....
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Does talking to a girl or getting in a relationship make boys self conscious about themselves? How to overcome it?

Few years ago I used to talk to girls freely but one thing I experienced when I was that type of guy, I was self conscious about myself. It was not only about my looks but also I started comparing myself to other boys. I...
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Pics or is it just me? help please... I need it?

Okay so lemme start off with something. I HAVE -100 self esteem. I don't know what got it to be like this, but let’s just say that I feel so freakin ugly compared to other girls. I get compliments about my beauty from...
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