Search Results: how to get my confidence up
My best piece of advice?
I see all these questions where everyone is looking for some convoluted way to ask someone out, to somehow "avoid" actually asking them out, as if that will make it any easier on you. It won't. Guys have asked me out (or...
What makes a guy nervous around a girl?
What makes a guy nervous around a girl? There is a guy I know is outgoing loud and is not shy around people even with girls. But I am shy but once you get to know me I will open up more and talk. he is confident...
Should I give up liking shy guy and he's a busy working guy?
we rarely sext.. I started to feel tired liking him. he doesn't text me much since he started to live with his mom. our last video call, he said his libido no longer high as he gets older (he's 10 years older than me, me...
Why you shouldn't tell an artist they suck at drawing
Artist is someone that creates .Maybe some of you don't consider yourself an artist because you aren't satisfied with your art .If you enjoy it that's all that matters if you want to improve go ahead no need to hurry...
Should I treat my mum the way she treats me?
there's good days and bad days, but the bad days will outweigh the good. pretty much ever girl i know talks about how their mother is the reason why they have so many self confidence issues and why they’re insecure and...
How would you define confidence? Do you think confidence is a front?
The ability and belief that you can correct things after you mess them up so you aren't 'afraid' of failiure and there's some margin of error, essentially risk management in a certain sense pf the word. Functioning in...
How to avoid always been seen as a player?
the thing is I usually go for a certain type of guy (not unrealistic standards) not super muscle or anything just an attractive smart, funny guy with a nice style. To build up my confidence I tend to just date anyone who...
Two months on Badoo, Tinder and Lovoo - The men I met
#1: The potential love of my life This guy is a 29-year-old Israeli-Turkish man who grew up in Germany and the UK. I definitely did not expect for us to have anything in common at first. However, after our first FaceTime...
I am 21 and ı have never had a girlfriend. Girls never seem interested in me. what is your my problem?
Im 20 and nearing 21. I have never had a girlfriend. Never been on a date and never ever had any girl show some sort of interest in me! In all my days living on this earth there has never been one where a girl has...
How do you move on from the past and get over of losing friends?
I can’t stop dwelling on the past and my past mistakes I feel guilt, shame and confused about things. Growing up I always felt like I never fitted in which meant that I was never 100% comfortable with myself I had low...
Girls just aren't interested in me?
Im 20 and nearing 21. I have never had a girlfriend. Never been on a date and never ever had any girl show some sort of interest in me! In all my days living on this earth there has never been one where a girl has...
"Love Yourself!" why is it easier said than done?
Me: "I have problem that my love gets so intensified, whilst the next person doesn't give a fuck about me" Them: "Hey! You don't love yourself!" Me: "I've got a problem that I am too loving, caring, and I give too...
Ladies, stop being desperate and asking men to validate you
So I saw a preposterous article the other day and I have been seeing many men believe that they have some form of preference for 20 year old women rather then 30 year old women....
How can I convince my friend his girlfriend’s a catfish?
So for the past almost 5 years, a long time friend of mine has been seeing this girl he met on a online. From the get-go, I didn’t have a lot of confidence in the situation. They live in different, far apart states, and...
Am I an asshole for leaving my boyfriend because I started randomly thinking of my ex?
So, for context, my ex and I were together for 9 years off and on. I was madly in love with him and ultimately, it was his decision to call it quits. It destroyed me and I spent 2 years afterwards trying to piece...
How guys should overcome a negative mindset with regards to dating!
This is mostly based on my experience, So for the last 8 months, I kept playing the victim to a failed relationship. It filled my head with all these negative thoughts like I am undateable, that I was the problem. But...
Rebuilding my self esteem after a toxic friendship?
Within the last year, I was with a group of friends that continously put me down and compared me physically to another friend of the group. They'd make comments such as 'you're pretty but [friends name] is just wow'...
I don't know how to stop obsessing, I'm jealous of women, of their gender roles and opportunities?
For example: find partners or lovers easily, be supported emotionally and financially, be pampered like children, earn money or power from sexuality, date or marry up, also women need to attractive but they dont need to...
How to gain my confidence back and stop caring about my bullies/fair weather friends?
I was bullied growing up because I was overweight. I lost weight and felt like the ugliest person in the world and added weight back. Afterwards, I was in intensive therapy. I am now starting to realize my worth and gain...
Never had a boyfriend or dated at 21 and still a virgin?
So, i have extreme social anxiety. I was an obese child and i was emotionally abused and bullied as a young child by peers and people in my life (as young as 5 years old. the bullying was especially horrific in elementary...
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