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Pros VS Cons. Been dating just over a year... I'm 30 she's 21 yes its bad I know. I met her at work and we had a hustle sort of job and she could hustle up some sales, she was a hard worker, that's what attracted me to her though she used my dog to get my direct attention and pursued me and sold me on her. Now that were not working there anymore and I went back to school and she's working full-time job this next part has been the baseline of our relationship.

Pros; Sweet, Only girl to really make me laugh all the time, Love's my dog, caring, does my laundry

Cons; Tantrums, complains, cries, over emotional on all the smallest things, won't get off the couch once she gets home, Don't help clean the house at all, Doesn't cook, Act's like a child and I mean she acts like a child for a number of reasons; in trouble, avoiding something and when upset. It's hard to passionate with her due to the fact she's extremely ticklish, She doesn't like sex and doesn't like giving out any favors ;) There is more to list but I'm sure by now you get the point no need to drag on the list.

Yes, I know there are more cons to pros and I have been really thinking about our relationship and if it's worth the time. She been hinting the idea of me buying her a ring and she knows that I won't dare ask that question till years down the road. Nor has this been really a relationship but more of a one-way relationship and it's her's

I've been told to end it though the thought of ending it I know will just absolutely crush her and that scares me beyond belief, I don't see a future with her at all and once in a while she'll get a fire lite under her ass and do something that just pulls me back in. I get fascinated with her once she choose to proactive in us and it gets me every time. Ultimately I want more in a relationship than what it is now. As a bonus of t. m. i our sex life has been non-existent

She's literally my best friends, no one in the world I can be more comfortable completely being myself around, her heart is the kindest I've encountered and I think she's very beautiful. I've known her for 4 years and dated her for half a year, a whole year if counting the moment we confessed we like each other in a special way, I'm her first everything, she's not my first (huge issue in the relationship here) she's extremely jealous when she thinks of my exes, I don't even talk to or about a single one of them, but saying the word "cheerleader" literally would make her cry because my ex, her former friend, was a cheerleader when she was a teenager (8 years before I even met her), I was staying at my girl's place before having to leave the country permanently, we were both never happier. It was what I look for my whole life. A month after I left the country she actually said let's break up, because she can no longer be happy with me since "the pain outweighs the happiness" the pain being her mind making non existent connection between everything in her normal day, and my past relationship. I've tried everything including learning her native language to prove I wanna migrate to her country and work there, where she wants her future to be, also so her parents would accept me better. I literally have 0 problems with commitment and don't think of other women or even get curious. she repeats "it's impossible for this pain to go away no matter what, so we should stop" and now it's been a whole week since I accepted to let her go (she said she's staying in a relationship with me until I am convinced that she won't be happy, and she was right, after a month of this issue and her being unhappy I let her go as she asked). Can I have her back? she says she won't look for other guys for a long time too. I'm at the point where even jealous doesn't matter to me, I'm ok with her having another relationship, kiss, sex, whatever she needs. if she ends up choosing to be with me.