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Of the people I've interacted with to any extent in person, almost all of them treat me wrongly one way or another... and it's not like it's very easy for me to hang out with people online from another state or country.

I can't get a break with any jobs I try to get... for yearsssssss. It's absolutely ridiculous. The only way I can pay my student loans basically is from playing online poker, and I really don't want to do that forever, nor is it something I make enough off of anyway for it to be a career thing. I mean I've been trying some fields that are not my first choice, but might interest me anyway, and still no luck! I wanted to be a Congressman two years ago, and now another Election where I am no where near being one... I have political goals and dreams. :( I also like acting, media, communications, writing, etc... but don't know how to get a chance in any of that either.

The few real life friends I've had live too far away now, and have their own lives, so have no one to even hang out with at all, and the VAST majority of people I've ever met in a social way end up hating me for whatever flipping reason... it varies. :/

I've never had a relationship either, and at my age? when (not to sound conceited) but I've been told how smart, or handsome I am a fair number of times, yet apparently I can't find someone who I like who likes me back? Really... Psh. I don't get it. This was bad enough at 18. At my age it's really, really a problem.

Oh, and when I got blood work done lately I found out I have a Vitamin D deficiency, so now I have to take vitamins for that. I guess the hour or so I pace around the backyard trying to make job calls that never get me anywhere isn't enough sun. I only really ever go anywhere outside my own yard one or two times a month on average. :/ Since I have no life it's like I have no where to go.

I'm so tired of this. People are lucky I haven't snapped, and it's only because I want a life, not to never have one. :(

Spouse A is kind, really fun to be around, has a great sense of humor, totally supports your career and gives you space to pursue your passions, earns good money but isn't downright rich either, and is a source of great comfort to you. However, spouse A is boring in bed, is not adventurous with sex, and likes it frustratingly less often than you do.

Spouse B is given to unpredictable changes of mind and mood, causes undue drama and fights, has difficulty holding down a job, starts projects and never finishes them, acts a bit entitled to joint resources, and you're always walking on eggshells so as not to upset this person. Spouse B is, of course, everything you have ever wanted in a lover.

You may assume neither will ever cheat on you.

I mean its 2016, the world is tending towards hyper gamy. All girls out there want the top tier even if they aren't anything much themselves. Girls aged 12-25 have spent all their lives on instagram and facebook and other social media and are led to believe only guys who are good looking exist. Everyone else is average to them. So why should any guy apart from the most genetically blessed even bother? Girls, even the fattest, ugliest, nerdiest girls who are simply not deformed need AT LEAST an 8/10 to feel any attraction and by 8/10, i mean better than 99% of the male population. Men need nothing more than anything that moves. So why should a man bother with women at all? Even if a girl is nice and he lands a date out of sympathy, he is her second or third or 1000000th choice ALWAYS and she is going to cry more over nick bateman fucking a supermodel hotter than her than her boyfriend dying or something. This is reality BOYOS. Its best to either make ur sex drive really low to a point you become asexual and not get depressed or just work on making a good career and buying sex, pay her a little extra to convincingly validate u too every time since u cannot get it as such.

Relationships are complicated. I am sure some of you heard of the saying, alpha fucks and beta bucks. While some guys can be a combination of both, but there's always the off chance of a more alpha male who has game in the picture who are "friends" with your wife.

Unless your wife is so unattractive that cheating is unlikely, for those women whom other men would also desire and make attempts to sleep with despite knowing a ring on her finger, it is a feasible scenario. Loyalty is a choice, but attraction is not, and a guy with really good "game" can amp up those attractions to overrule the female logical brain to act on impulses.

You may be the decent looking guy with a good career, who has less time to maintain your body and keep lifestyle interesting comparing to someone who is a player who tends to not have a serious career and dedicate their time else where.

Or worse, if your wife got gamed my a professional pick up artist who earn their living from teaching other men how to get laid.

Knowing what's out there and knowing the chances, would you DNA test your new born to have a peace of mind?