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28F, my mom & I have always went through periods where we stop talking for a few weeks/months. Back in 2020, we got in a big fight & didn’t talk for a little over a year. I finally began talking to her again & we got back in an argument for the first time since Dec 2022. That was squashed after a weekend & got in another argument this Tues. It’s usually over petty things, I can be very argumentative & a good amount of the time she tries to rekindle. In 2020 I was living alone & I moved back in with her Nov 22. I don't know if we went a good amount of time not fighting bc I wasn’t living with her, I’m older now & hoped things would’ve changed. I really thought they did but I snap very easily, work has been stressful & we’re back to old ways. Bc of this, my anxiety is up the roof & not very content atm. My dad said we have a crazy relationship, mind you he & his mother’s relationship was worse. It makes me second guess if we’re really ok, I feel comfortable with her but we’re equally petty & too alike I guess?

Referring to Kyle

Six months ago, my ex-boyfriend cheated me with other woman. I was desperate to move on and went to dating site and met a Greek man who immediately flew to see me.

When we were still talking online, everything goes well! However, when we met in person, I realised he cannot control his anger when he cannot get his way, which makes me scared.

After a few months passed, I still had feelings for my ex-boyfriend and did reach out to him but I got more frustrated when I learned that he was getting married to the other woman.

I was depressed because of my ex but Kyle is still beside me. I lost my job but Kyle never leaves me. He wanted to meet me again this Christmas, but I'm confused with my feelings

Unexpectedly, I met a German man named Mario who only spent a vacation in my City. He is very kind and respectful. We spent time together and we were laughing and having so much fun. I started to like him, and he admits he does too. We kissed, but we never had sex since I told him, "Not yet!." He does not get mad if things don't go his way, which I really admire about him.

After a few days together, I was shocked that I was able to moved on from my ex-boyfriend because of Mario. I am complete again; however, when he leaves, I become broken again. I missed him and I was shocked Mario blocked me. He said he hasn't moved on yet from his ex, but he really likes me a lot. He may come back. I think he needs space. I missed him and wonder if he comes back.

My question here is: Should I break up with Kyle? If so, I am afraid no one will take me seriously. And Mario won't come back.

I am already 28. I am afraid I will never get married. Or should I fight for Kostas?