Referring to Kyle
Six months ago, my ex-boyfriend cheated me with other woman. I was desperate to move on and went to dating site and met a Greek man who immediately flew to see me.
When we were still talking online, everything goes well! However, when we met in person, I realised he cannot control his anger when he cannot get his way, which makes me scared.
After a few months passed, I still had feelings for my ex-boyfriend and did reach out to him but I got more frustrated when I learned that he was getting married to the other woman.
I was depressed because of my ex but Kyle is still beside me. I lost my job but Kyle never leaves me. He wanted to meet me again this Christmas, but I'm confused with my feelings
Unexpectedly, I met a German man named Mario who only spent a vacation in my City. He is very kind and respectful. We spent time together and we were laughing and having so much fun. I started to like him, and he admits he does too. We kissed, but we never had sex since I told him, "Not yet!." He does not get mad if things don't go his way, which I really admire about him.
After a few days together, I was shocked that I was able to moved on from my ex-boyfriend because of Mario. I am complete again; however, when he leaves, I become broken again. I missed him and I was shocked Mario blocked me. He said he hasn't moved on yet from his ex, but he really likes me a lot. He may come back. I think he needs space. I missed him and wonder if he comes back.
My question here is: Should I break up with Kyle? If so, I am afraid no one will take me seriously. And Mario won't come back.
I am already 28. I am afraid I will never get married. Or should I fight for Kostas?
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This is nothing new. Lose a job, lose a man, and renaissance. Sometimes a guy who does not cheat, unlike this one, gets caught up in this. You are restarting your life now.
I stopped after the first paragraph. I didn't need to go any further. ALWAYS dump a cheater. A cheater will cheat on you again. It's simply a matter if when.
So you're with two people? Aren’t you also cheating just like your ex did? Break up with both of em, idc.