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I was watching the HBO show The White Lotus and this topic came up. How would you feel if your dad sometimes enjoyed making love to men?

These are things she did to him in the past. Are these good reasons for him and anyone to hate my mother as their future MIL?

- Suddenly excluded him for practicaclly the whole month of Dec... refusing to introduce him to friends; he felt insulted and hurt with that action

- Badmouth about him to others and defamed his character, tarnished his image/reputation

- Literally made my father and others believe for years that he was a manipulative player that took my innocence and somewhat of a pervert

- Literally kicked him out of the house, told him that I'm not available, making him return home, which is 1-2 hours far. Then lied to me and others by saying he never stops by to visit anymore. She kept that lie for over 8 years.

- Took me with her to our homecountry, where I didn't want to go. I had the option to stay and fight for my relationship but mom kept saying ''I gotta take you away from him anyhow''.

- Issued him an insincere apology over the phone while expecting him to bring gifts when he comes (so he can marry me, take me back to FL... and help her with a visa too) and still holding that dirty image of him, still keeping the lie that he never visited me

- Insulted him once on my b-day, call him a loser and even said ''when my daughter goes back to her country, she'll find a way better man than you'' with a mocking tone

- Laughing and bragging to others that she made him cry and imitating the way he cried; saying that a man that cries is weak and the worst

- When he called, she purposely would tell him to come over and visit our places (knowing very well he had little money and there is a slim chance we can be together) as if mocking him.

- Basically my mother wanted to keep me away from my happiness. She purposely did everything to tarnish his image. He obviously hated her for the longest and only recently forgave her not because of her but because he wants to be at peace with himself, not live with the hatred anymore.

Do you think this girl's mother is an entitled woman asking for too much? Please read.

I'm just an observant (a family friend). The girl was dating her boyfriend for 4 months. All was great until the lady excluded him on a family event and got involved in the relationship too much. The lady even speaks for her daughter on conversations, interrupts on the table too.

The guy reacted like anyone would've: reducing his visits, distancing from the relationship, hardly going out on dates and spending more time on work, with friends and elsewhere... away from drama, the meddling mother and his pushover girlfriend.

The girl's b-day was last month and the lady argued with the guy badly. She literally insulted him (making him cry in anger) because he came with no gift. He came with nothing because the lady ruined the surprise date. He was gonna take her on a restaurant. The lady literally told him what to get for his daughter and organized the b-day herself. The girl said nothing, stood there, didn't defend him.

When the guy claimed he was gonna surprise her on her b-day, she thought it would be with a damn engagement ring. LOL
- The relationship went south ever since the mother meddled
- The guy's girlfriend is a total pushover; she's already 20 years old
- The girl doesn't want kids nor a family
- The girl hasn't really been doing anything for the guy besides having sex.
- Just because she lost her virginity to him, doesn't mean he has to marry her, esp if she's not contributing anything and he has more to lose.
- I heard the girl once told him ''I'll abort the thing if you ever get me pregnant''. She referred to an unborn baby as a thing.
- The girl doesn't even know how to make basic meals, balance a checkbook, take care of herself, act like an adult, etc.

With all those negative points, the drama and everything else... the lady really thinks her daugher deserved a ring on her finger.