Would you be upset if you found out your dad was secretly having affairs with men?

[supercutebutt]

Secret gay dad? So what? VOTE BELOW!

I was watching the HBO show The White Lotus and this topic came up. How would you feel if your dad sometimes enjoyed making love to men?

Dads have urges, too. VOTE!

I would be cool with it no matter what. :)

I would be OK with it if my dad was always the top in his same sex relationships. If he is a bottom, then forget it.

I could handle dad being a "power bottom" or "bossy bottom." But I'd lose respect other than those exceptions.

I could handle my father being a submissive bottom but I don't like picturing him barking out sex instructions as an aggressive bottom or top.

I am OK with dad scoring occasional penis but only in a threesome setting with a female involved.

I would be against it but only if my dad and mom are still married. If they are divorced, it's fine.

I would be against it in all instances. :(

[Little_Bumblebee]

The affair part of it is what I would be against. Doesn't matter if it was a woman or a man.

[supercutebutt]

So it would be ok only if dad was divorced from mom then?

[Little_Bumblebee]

Well yeah, why shouldn't it?

Sure, I would be surprised. As far as I know, my dad is straight - and I cannot even imagine him with someone else than my mother, but... if that was what he would be into, then that's it.

[supercutebutt]

That's cool, Bumble. Would you prefer your dad be a top or a bottom? And would it make a difference if he was a submissive bottom vs. a bossy bottom?

[Little_Bumblebee]

I wouldn't need to know.
My family doesn't talk about private stuff like that, to begin with.. So... I would find it weird to know, especially my dad. He's often a man of few words.

[supercutebutt]

Believe me, I get it. Picturing my dad enjoying romance with a gentleman would be hard but maybe a *little* easier if he was the one giving the instructions in a sexual encounter. You know? Like if he was a dom top I could maybe handle it better OR a power bottom who took control. Like if my friends were teasing me about my dad being with a man I could say, "hey listen up, my dad isn't just a bottom, he is a BOSSY bottom and I love him."

[Little_Bumblebee]

I don't know if that's really important. He's not less of a man.

[supercutebutt]

I agree. But our minds always paint a visual picture when we hear about some news. So I am just wondering if you would prefer to picture your dad in a certain way when your brain is processing the details.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I honestly just don't want to picture my dad having sex...

[supercutebutt]

I concur. But an image will flash in your mind. What would be your preference of these three?
1) Dominant top
2) Submissive bottom
3) Bossy bottom

[ChrisMaster69]

Cheating is cheating, who it’s with is not the point.

it could be 1 woman or 20,

it could be 1 man or 20

It’s cheating

[supercutebutt]

Check out Option F :)

[MikeTheBartender]

With the new wife he married i would have preferred a man.

[JessieBellll]

Mine had a 17 year old boyfriend. My mom just didn't care

[supercutebutt]

Do you know if your dad prefers being a bottom or a top?

[JessieBellll]

Don't know, guess bottom

[supercutebutt]

That's cool. I wonder if your dad is a bossy bottom.

[slatyb]

Mostly I would be concered if he had a female partner who didn’t know.

[SmokinAces2000]

If he was cheating on my mom I would care but if he was just gay no why would I care it’s not my business what or who he does 😂

[Anonymous]

... Yeah I stopped caring about my dad a while ago when he stopped caring about me.

[supercutebutt]

Maybe you aren't hot enough for him?

[Opinion Owner]

Nah. He's disappointed in me and my life choices.

[exitseven]

I could not wrap my head around that.

[supercutebutt]

One day you may have to. A secret could come out.

[exitseven]

no, it would never happen. He was having an affair with a woman.

[supercutebutt]

The majority of men who have relationships with other men are married and they live life on "the downlow"

[exitseven]

yes, I know that.

[msc545]

No. His life, his body.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Dumbest question ever

[supercutebutt]

Why?

[Sam_The_Savage]

Bkoz I don't see your super cute butt

[supercutebutt]

That's because this question is about dads.

[Sam_The_Savage]

What are you doing right now?

[supercutebutt]

Watching The White Lotus

[Sam_The_Savage]

Ohk than leave it...

[supercutebutt]

How come? Do you need to talk about your dad?