If your mom was cheating on your dad with another woman, would you tell your dad?

Question

From a biological perspective it's not a big deal since no offspring can become of such union and your wife can't be cucked into raising another person's child. Would you risk happiness of your mom and stable environment to tell your dad about it?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes I would , it’s still cheating , people that can accept cheating in a marriage are the biggest pieces of shit on this planet , You don’t get married to be single and you don’t do things behind your partner’s back without discussing it with them first, So yes I would rat my Mom out and be pissed at her for doing that behind my Dad’s back , the same as if I busted my Dad cheating on my Mom , I would tell my Mom the truth , If you want to hook up and fool around with random people then don’t get in a relationship or married period , it’s a selfish decision , people that can accept that are people you want to stay away from , If you are going to cheat end your relationship with your current partner , you are only living a lie that you actually love your partner if you can cheat on them , Waste of time for the both of you , life is too short to be played

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't condone it and definitely wouldn't praise her for it. But at the same time my mom gave me everything I have today and I'm not about to ruin her life by telling my dad anything.
Fortunately it's not even something I can imagine happening, both my parents are very classical in mindsets and cheating for them is viewed as a complete violation almost as bad as murder so neither would entertain the idea

supercutebutt · Accepted Answer

Well if my mom was cheating with a gentleman, I would first scoop the semen out of her sniz or butt with my tongue. Then I would would tell dad that mother is a slut :(

But this question is about mom with a lady. So in that case I would stay quiet. It's none of dad's business that mom craves snatch. :)

Seinna · Accepted Answer

I'd tell HER to stop and if she doesn't I'd tell my dad. It depends also on the reason... if my dad was abusive, didn't care about her etc then I'd suggest leaving him.

Screenwriter · Answer

You are not in the primary relationship with your father, your mom is. What goes on between THEM is between them.

The wisest thing to do would be to talk to your MOTHER about what you know and ask her what's going on, if you're old enough to understand the situation and have some compassion for both of them.

If you're a teen-ager or just slightly post-adolescent, I don't think you can judge your parents' marriage or why anyone does anything good or bad in a relationship.

For all you know, your dad already knows and is leaving it alone. You have NO IDEA of what goes on between a married couple. Maybe your dad cheated first!

This is THEIR business, not yours. No matter how it might disrupt your life,

YESIMFUNNY · Answer

No, that would be too easy. I'd use it as leverage, to get her to do what my father and I want. Telling right away would be predictable and boring. Not to mention inconvenient for all of us. I'll tell my father after I get bored. Cheating is a terrible thing to do, and I believe a cruel and unusual punishment would be best.

Rogue77 · Answer

Absolutely. Cheating your spouse is a terrible thing to do to someone you're supposed to care about. It doesn't matter if she's cheating with another woman, it's still cheating. Cheating also says something about your character, and it's not anything good.

RJJ33666 · Answer

To be honest, I wouldn't really tell my dad. I mean, women or men usually cheat when they remain unsatisfied in a relationship and marriage. I would definitely tell her to stop, but I wouldn't make it news in my family. That could just lead to problems that will never remain within the family.

dominicanbeauty · Answer

I'd give my mother a chance to explain, if she was drunk or high she wasn't physically capable of giving legal consent. Therefore I wouldn't tell my father in order to preserve the marriage, but if she was drink or high and this happens a second time then I would tell my father because it became a pattern. If she was capable of giving legal consent, and still had sex then I would tell my father.

Miristheiss · Answer

Absolutely.

Morally speaking... I cannot fathom any people out there actually hide stuff like this from someone being lied to and betrayed and keeping this kind of a secret.

There is no way I wouldn't tell. I'd tell anyone... even a stranger if I knew they were being betrayed.

Bee-Hatch · Answer

Weird sexual politics aside. Why does it matter if the mother is cheating with either gender. It's still cheating.

scentoflavender · Answer

I don't condone cheating in any form. That being said, mom and dad, neighbors, the weird meth head couple that hangs out in front of the gas station... their relationships are none of my business.

SupremeWarlord · Answer

No, but that's because my mom is in a very weak spot, she has depression and doesn't have a job, I believe my father would tolerate her behavior because of that. But I would not risk telling him, sorry dad :(

But my mother would never do that, so don't you dare ask that again :D

amani2010 · Answer

Nop! i won't because it may become worst and dangerous the only simple thing I can do is to stand up tall and face mom face to face to stop before things get worse and if it continues talk to you aunt or uncle and not direct to your father.

TrueConfection · Answer

My dad is a good man and he loves my mother with every ounce of his being. If my mother betrayed him in such a hurtful way, I would not be her accomplice.

hahahmm · Answer

If she did stuff right in front of my face I'd out her. If she was trying to keep it secret and I just accidentally found out, I would give dad enough hints/info for him to easily find out.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Never saw that movie, but from that video, looks like a bad marriage with bad communication, and then add in some 'fatal attraction' effects for good screenplay. Cheap thrills.

tibit · Answer

Cheating is cheating... it sucks but it is what it is. Id rather not be lied to.

_bunny_ · Answer

Totally I hated my mom anyway I totally would have told her

TremorJay · Answer

DRAMA lol Yes I would tell my dad, because I value the truth. Maybe some people would rather live a lie, but not me.

joeblow123 · Answer

If the father found out from an outside source about the affair and found out that his children knew but didn't tell him he would feel overwhelmed by betrayal.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nope nothing to do with me. Also for anyone living with parents, it’s basically breaking up the family.

Aristomachos · Answer

I would not tell, I am not entitled to. I might though make my mom tell my dad in an indirect way just because I do not find it honest and when truth hidden you live a lie.

Browneye57 · Answer

Assume he already knows. But yeah, you could probe with a few questions. Or even better, ask your mom - "Does dad know you're fucking around?" Then you can decide what to do from there.

little_black_dress · Answer

I am actually in this situation and no I am not going to tell my dad

Anonymous · Answer

Stay Neutral and out of it. Maybe talk to Mom only.

IcedLemonade · Answer

I need to be told so I can dump her and her friend in the local river

rcljr · Answer

Yes, bros before ho’s, even if the Ho is your mama.

Schizoaffective · Answer

That scene is hot But yea I would definitely tell my dad.

Nick473 · Answer

Bi people can cheat with both genders so yes definitely.

JaneDoe190 · Answer

Women have sex with women. Even straight women have sex with women. No big deal.

ToastyOats · Answer

That woman would be lucky if she didn't have a "tragic accident" If you know what I mean.

anylolone · Answer

Well, information is power, that's all that I have to say.

innerman · Answer

I would want him to know but such news can’t come from me

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. I can't stand females who fuck around behind their partners back. Female entitlement pisses me off.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

How would you even know, unless you heard them moaning from the next room.

Anonymous · Answer

People who take this much of an interest in their parents' sex lives are really fucking weird.

Anonymous · Answer

I would tell him after I finished sucking his dick.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Of course, cheating is cheating.

acooke-13 · Answer

I'd tell her she needs to tell him or I will.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I'd strongly encourage her to tell him.

Not_Average · Answer

I’d force my mom to tell him or I would

Subarugirl · Answer

No I would talk to my mother about it.

es20490446e · Answer

I'm not the man to trust your shitty affairs.

Sketti2021 · Answer

Absolutely with proof

zagor · Answer

That is even more inconcievable than lesbian sex.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

I'd tell my mom to stop being such a lesbo slut.

Clarke498 · Answer

I'd make her tell him.

Grubhub · Answer

My parents are divorced

Better_off_here · Answer

cheating is wrong no matter who does it.

Anonymous · Answer

I would probably kill her and her partner first

Supernormal · Answer

Is that cheating?

oncpl · Answer

I am coward.

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