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For the record I am definitely guilty of:

• Posting about politics (often)
• Using profanity
• Getting in heated (even hateful) arguments
• Talking in depth about dirty/explicit sexual topics for entertainment. However I do much less of that nowadays.

But I remember first posting on GAG literally 14 years ago. Back then it really was more focused about dating and romance issues. Never posted about politics or anything unrelated outside men and women interacting.

I was also more open back then. This included admitting difficult (and embarrassing issues). Insecurities I was struggling with. But nowadays I’m rarely if ever that open. Reason being I am usually not in the mood to get blasted by some idiot troll.

Anyway I got in a real heated argument with one person on GAG yesterday. She unnecessarily hit a very deep nerve with me at the wrong moment. I responded back with sheer vitriol and wished the worst on here (which I later recanted). It wasn’t productive for anyone either way. Not good for her. Not good for me. Not good for anybody who read it.

However that made think harder. What if there was version of GAG that:

• Didn’t allow any slurs, labels, insults, explicit profanity. You can still post it but it the word will immediately get censored.
• Only focused on relationship issues
• Would only allow a PG version of sexual issues
• Wouldn’t allow any postings/opinions about politics (no matter where you stand).
  
  

Sure it sounds really boring and dull at first. But I can’t help but wonder how many people give up on this website at some point. Especially women. Or how many people come here just to “ventilate” vitriol. Or how many people come here for “talk” porn.

What about people who just want to post honest questions and get honest (respectful) responses. A respectful response isn’t always what you want to hear but what you NEED to hear. The difference is knowing the poster really wants to help you vs. enjoying throwing shade.

I run with some guys mostly at my school who are all fuccbois, me too. I came here from out of state though and immediately started bragging how these girls aren't that good, I could get em easy. A few of em warned me saying these girls are thicc asf and wear black leggings a lot and will keep a rbf if they suspect a guys a fuccboi. I laughed it off and said that won't faze me. Well yesterday I went up to this 1 girl I know in 1 of my classes that's a junior, she's 21. Thicc, had on black leggings and stayed straight faced. I went up to her and thought I had her. I was trying my BEST to ignore looking down at her booty and upper legs cuz she's thicc and in the black leggings it showed smh... but by the count of 2 I was cringing like ugggh 😖😖and finally gave up.. I can't... and my eyes went down and landed booty, then legs and the air just went out of me UHHHH😲😲😲😲so I tried to look up and recover but when I did I looked right into her cute face and I panicked... she just kept her face straight and I was TOTALLY gutted😭😭. I didn't know what to do so I apologized and admitted to her yeah I'm a fuccboi and I thought I could ignore it, tried but it doesn't work on her and I regret it. Later on I was mad asf... at myself cuz of how my jaw dropped and admitting it... it totally destroyed my ego bad. Is it right to have admitted it and feel mad about it?