So this guy (21M) and I (19F) just got offical 3 days back after 4 dates. We both are old school with dating tho we met on a dating app. it is hella weird cause I am the type to want to take my time knowing someone even if I like em. I was cheated on by my ex last year (first boyfriend, we were together for 2mths official, 2 dating) due to which I have trust issues though im over him.
My boyfriend treats me extremely well compared to other guys I've been with, like he is literally a walking green flag with a growth mindset. While i would admit he is a little aggressive on the sexual side and he sucks at texting, he is still pretty good. exceot our first date, the other 3 lasted 10-15 hours including us sleeping over at each others. We only kissed after the 3rd date and fucked on the 4th. He gave me his rings and jacket too. he asked me out after the first date but i was iffy & said i needed time but he has slowly grown over me and I like what a caring guy he is. He is a introverted as well. Even though we're still learning about each other I said yes because we do think we can be toghether longterm, our ideals match. He got along with my besties and I got along with his and both approved. Unfortunately, he does live 1.5hrs away through transit so we can only see each other 1-2 times a week which is okay cause we're still getting to know each other and im a bit more busy. The issue is we barely talk outside meeting. we started sharing locations the night before getting official but he already stopped sharing it. Now suddenly he is off insta, says he wants a social media break but won't tell me anything else and im not having a good feeling about it. Not sure if its my intuition/ anxiety or whats happening. He told his cousins about us dating, they told his parents but its chill. while we agreed on learning about each other slowly/ taking our time im a little confused on how to approach him without sounding like some obessive fk and being pushy. I AM CONFUSED.
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I don't seen any red flags here
it seems fine
he is interested in u n is treating u well
it won't be an issue if he wants a break from social media JUST make sure to keep in touch with him n talk to him daily
yeah.. but isn't the whole not sharing location and stuff a little sketch?
hmm I could be
I mean why would he stop doing so
kind of sus
I don't know; i spoke to him after. he facetimed me for an hr and half; he's not much of a techie guy and thought everyone else could see his location; he started sharing it again with me. Our convo went well and i brought up the communication stuff as well. He was like he wants this to work out and sutff
everything shall be good then
good luck