My sugar daddy situation (opinions wanted)?

[Anonymous]

Im 27 and My sugar daddy is only 7 years older than me. Honestly he feels more like a boyfriend that spoils me 😭. He’s very handsome and tall. I used to be so scared I’d have to be with an old ugly man to have a sugar daddy But I really got lucky. He just bought me a luxury condo In my name 😅. I live a good life! He takes very good care of me. There’s Only one problem I’m not sure about.

He wants me to have his baby and is actively trying to get me pregnant. I honestly feel like we might as well just be a couple at this point cause we already act and live like a couple. nobody even suspects that he’s my sugar daddy cause we look normal together since we are kinda close in age. He gets mad when I try to get a job and do my own thing. He doesn’t ever want me to work and says he just wants me to focus on having his babies. I don't know if this is even a sugar daddy /sugar baby relationship anymore. (But it has to be right? Because he still gives me allowance. )

He gets very possessive and jealous when I’m talking to other guys and he even tried to fight my male friends. I caught him snooping through my phone two days ago. I’m just confused cause he’s so sweet and good to me. He’s Not just there for me financially but mentally and emotionally he’s there for me. He so affectionate and attentive to me. He jokes about marrying me which is why I’m confused. He asked me what would I do if he was serious about marrying me. Why would he ask that? How did we get here? I have feelings for him and he tells me he loves me every chance he gets. I never say I love you back to him and he gets irritated that I don’t. I never say it back Because I feel like it’s too confusing. It’s weird because he’s originally my sugar daddy. I’m not sure what we are doing anymore. One time I tried to ask him what we are doing and he just playfully replied “ you know I’m daddy” . That’s it. Is this normal? Id love opinions on what outsiders think is going on between us

[Aerissa_Jade]

People are human, you both may have started one way and ended with feelings. Sugar dating isn't always about sexual favors, or even being eye candy. Some times it is just paying for dates.

Then again, I have a brother that his wife does not work and he gives her a monthly allowance to spend on whatever she wants each month. He tried having her do bills and stuff but she did it backwards, bought what she wanted then complained not enough for bills.

When she should of been doing bills then seeing what was left over, thus she now has a allowance.

Some traditional or non sugar relationships are in such a way that the man or woman, wants to take care of the other. Wants to see them succeed in life, finish school, buy them a car, house, whatever and support them either a 100% or partially, like pushing them to finish college and funding it but still making them do a portion of the work.

Chances are, if a relationship goes on long enough people fall in love.

The internet is full of sugar relationships that started off with an agreement but ended up with a ring on her finger.

[Bethany22]

What exactly are you to him? Was the agreement that you would be his eye candy on his shoulder or sex object, and he would give you money? If both of you are developing feelings for each other, maybe you should take this good opportunity to be a traditional family woman, and stay home cooking, cleaning, and raising kids, while he earns the money so that you can live that life?

[Asker]

The agreement was originally I give him sexual favors for money. Then it turned Into us hanging out and going on dates. Went from spending weekends to weekdays together. He just started taking care of me 🤷‍♀️. We fell into this routine that strangely feels like a married couple. still the only title I’m aware that we have is sugar daddy /sugar baby. I’m very confused !

[Asker]

Wait so u think he has feelings for me?

[Bethany22]

Seems like he does

[fonduegirl]

He might have feelings for you, but that's not necessarily a good thing here

[Anonymous]

If this is true, you are seriously wasting your time. No amount of purchases, Condo's or gifts are going to make up for the damage you will end with. The damage to your soul and levels of ascension. This entire connection began through low vibration and is likely to create energy that prevents or slows your ascension. Your ascension is more important than all of this but in time you might realise. The devil enjoys creating an easy road because it leads to the path of less ascension and low vibration. This is what is happening right now.

'I honestly feel like we might as well just be a couple at this point'

That will be the biggest regret of your life. But perhaps that is how you will learn. Most of us are on a path of pain.

[RavVid]

It is not exactly classic sugar baby/daddy. Certainly he wants to be in control. My guess is he wants you to be submissive and really it might be great if that is within your nature. If it isn't then you can't fulfill your side of the deal so break it.

[Anonymous]

I'm calling bullshit on this. If his is "very handsome and tall" and has the money to afford a "sugar baby", he can easily do better.

[Asker]

Do better than me? You’re just a judgmental asshole

[Opinion Owner]

Judgmental, yes. Asshole, no. No quality woman is a sugar baby, and a man like you describe can get a quality woman. The end.

[Asker]

I met him in the strip club where men like him love quality women like me.

[Opinion Owner]

Of course you did. Lmao

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fiction

[Asker]

Sir I’m clearly anonymous because I’m already embarrassed enough. Leave me alone atp

[Opinion Owner]

I'll leave you alone when you stop lying.

[Asker]

You must be naive. I’ve been stripping since I was 21 until I met him. Trust that he’s not the first man that has offered to take me out of the strip club and take care of me. This is not my first experience so sorry if you’re not exposed to this lifestyle

[Asker]

If I had a dime for every time I was offered money for sexual favors when I was working at the club. If you don’t understand the culture then mind your business

[Anonymous]

Is it weird because you still think of yourself as his prostitute?

[Asker]

Tbh yes ! It feels weird because that’s how we started off. So how is it that we can shift into something more with a foundation like that? Even though no one has officially said that we are more but it’s kind of the elephant in the room. I’m not even sure that he wants to be more with me but he acts like he does. He hasn’t said it though…idk I’m confused

[Opinion Owner]

So why don't you suggest that he stop paying you an allowance and act more like a regular dating couple?

[Anonymous]

Did he get you pregnant? How did it work out?

[TheFlak38]

When is the porn movie coming out?

[Asker]

Whatttt 🫢

[fonduegirl]

He's a covert control freak.

[Anonymous]

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