How do I know if he's caught feelings?

[gcm13]

Im pretty sure I'm just overthinking the situation but we've been hooking up pretty consecutively for like 2 months. I sleep over in his room everytime, he always offer me his 🍃 when he uses it, he lets me take naps on his shoulder the next day and he asks me about my personal life. He also gives me compliments and cuddles me. He laughs at my jokes and shit like that. He also has brought it to my attention that he changes the way he talks around me (not saying things I don't like). I genuinely can't tell if he's just a very nice guy cause we don't talk other than when we hookup and he's only told 2 people about it, but he does have a small friend group. He also told me he wasn't gonna do what the last guy did to me (lead me on and then ghost me out of nowhere). I'm really confused and I know I should just ask but I'm too scared.

[kyleelyn199723]

I personally think he needs to prove himself more to you before you can just consider it. Any man can give you great sex, a convo and some weed. Don’t let that be the highlight of your time with him. He will get used to that and will literally never take you out on dates. I would wait for him to start doing things like that. If you give into dating him right now, you will end up in an unfulfilling relationship

[Anonymous]

Communication is extremely important in any relationship, but especially this type! Yes it's a risk and scary, but you MUST talk with him and find out and make sure you're still on the same page. But, are you catching feelings for him? Be honest with yourself about that also. If you're questioning this, I'm thinking you are starting to get some? But from someone that has been there, believe me you want to talk about this now and get it out in the open, regardless of what happens. Yes there's a risk he'll leave, but that's only going to BENEFIT you! Why? Because if you are starting to get feelings, they are only going to deepen the longer this goes on. And if he doesn't feel the same, it's going to hurt even more than it will now when he leaves. And if he doesn't leave and feels the same way, YAY! So either way, it truly is a win win!

[spartan55]

That's great. He hasn't and won't be catching any feelings for you. If he had any respect, or thought highly enough of you at the start, he would have wanted a relationship with you then. He has no reason to now. You give him the pie for free.

[Anonymous]

Sorry for the dumb question, what does the 2 leaves me? Where you wrote he always gives me his? When he uses it.