How do I stop catching feelings for a guy TOO fast?

Anonymous
I think that this is primarily a female problem and it is one that I ESPECIALLY struggle with to the point that I feel that I have lost control over my emotions. Guys can be really sweet, manipulative, smart, and just know everything right to say to make a girl go head over heels for them. I emotionally invest myself TOO quickly and catch feels for people that likely are not even interested in having a committed relationship with me. Guys that are simply interested in receiving sexual favours or flirting and wasting time with me even have the capacity to hold my heart. And I hate that. I hate being so vulnerable. I know that if my feelings are this intense within days of meeting someone, then the heartbreak will be more than I can handle. I don’t want to keep loving people that don’t feel the same about me. Can anyone give me advice?
How do I stop catching feelings for a guy TOO fast?
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I feel so bad and stupid and I’ve been absolutely heartbroken recently. God I don’t ever want to talk to anyone again.
How do I stop catching feelings for a guy TOO fast?
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