Is my fuckbuddy catching feelings?

[zirconiaxo]

Technically I've known this guy for a month now. And we always drink. And we talk about life and always have great conversations. And i can't help but noticr, he's always staring at me? texting me first, asking if he can stop by and come talk for abit. Last time i was with him, he was kissing my head multiple times and my forehead. And he was holding my hand and wrapping his arm around me. He makes me laugh so much, he's always inviting me out places. Im not sure if he's starting too like me. I'm so confused... :/

[cuddlenation1994]

Yeah sweetheart he does. But it's okay you should bring it up and talk to him about it. Just don't ask "you don't have feelings for me, do you?" If he likes you enough to not want to risk losing you, he'll likely lie to keep you around. Be honest, men don't have much natural emotional maturity, we need someone to help us along. If you don't like him, respect him enough to let him know, but don't tell him no when a part of you means yes. It's easy to see a man's heart through his gaze, you can tell he wants to be around you by the way he looks at you. Good luck, I'm around if you need more advice. I'm curious how this goes.

[SirRexington]

Awe!!! This guy is definitely trying to win you over girl, you need to discover within Yusuf if you do too.
If you find that you do, grab his face and kiss him like you'll never see each other again. Then tell him you like him. He'll be extatic.

[zirconiaxo]

Thankyou! <3 i will

[SirRexington]

No problem and good luck. And what the fuck is Yusuf? Dumb autocorrect. Anyway, go get em tiger!

[zirconiaxo]

Yeah i was gonna say wtf 😂

[Heartonmysleeve88]

Having a friend with benefit will no doubt make someone start to like you - mainly because you are being intimate with each other and are bonding.
The fact that you have conversations about life also helps as well.

Do you like him back?

[anaspie]

Sounds like he might be catching some feelings yes. But this is a conversation you really should have with him. Make sure that you are both on the same page and if not reevaluate the kind of relationship you have.

[ivaneca]

Yes, more than obviously. Seems like he has a crush. You should decide what to do from now on. If you do nothing, his feelings will probably get stronger. Spare him that problem, if you have no intention of being with him. And spare yourself the trouble of it too.

[Pyrofox]

The better question do you want the relationship with him? Start there and make a decision to ask if he wants to make it more than just sex. Cause most likely he's probably trying to get the confidence to ask you out. Not to mention he'd probably make a OwO face if you told him you were catching on to the fact he is starting to develop feelings. xD.

[troychapman]

it would seem so if he's giving more than usuall then he's starting to like you more in this case he's staring to fall in love

[zirconiaxo]

Really?

[troychapman]

absolutely

[zirconiaxo]

Wow 😫

[America1st]

Ask him. We can't tell you for sure. Guessing, I would say he does, but this could just be who he is. Enjoy it if it doesn't become a problem. Many friends with benefits relationships end because one person falls for the other. Good luck.

[mobligator]

If he isn't falling for you he must be awfully horny. Men can get very lovey dovey, kissy etc when they are horny but once they get off once or twice most guys ~ (but not all) aren't into cuddling.

[Anonymous]

Umm yeah. A fuck buddy is usually just that, nothing more. You're doing more than that already, "great conversations", going places etc. I can pretty much guarantee HE thinks of you as a girlfriend, or, he would like that.

[Bananaman177]

Do what you want to, but do what you need to, too.

And by that, I mean both yes, AND no.

[Dtegesd123]

doesn't sound like a fuck buddy. You guys sound like a regular young couple haha. The type of relationship you guys have would only be considered a fuck buddy if you or him already have a gf/bf.

[zirconiaxo]

lol dnt think you know what a fuck buddy is

[Dtegesd123]

for me a fuck buddy is someone I can stand, we fuck, we talk for like 10 minutes and they leave. Booty call would be even quicker lol. we don't talk.

[Dtegesd123]

but yeah he is falling or has fallen for you

[cuddlenation1994]

I don't think you know what a fuck buddy is, That's called cheating. A fuck buddy can be exclusive like a relationship, except without the feelings

[cuddlenation1994]

I agree

[zirconiaxo]

Who are you talking too?

[jman46241]

I think you're catching feelings as well. It's time to walk away..

[Danny_dan92]

To be straight up with you, yeah. He is definitely has caught feelings doll

[arcaneblackez]

Make him feel jealous and you will know the 100% truth that he is falling for you

[zirconiaxo]

good fucken idea!

[LastNightmare]

it seems so.. get new fuck buddies before he ended up confessing

[CuteVenus]

😂 dude he's catching feelings fast af

[zirconiaxo]

Really?

[CuteVenus]

Yh
think about it; you guys have great conversations and are close maybe intimate and u know him and he laughs with u and stuff but now he's doing the boyfriend extra by being there and attentive and close without being sexual

[zirconiaxo]

Yeah exactly what i was thinking. And telling all my friends he's doing what boyfriends do

[CuteVenus]

But do u wanna make things serious with him?

[zirconiaxo]

im sarting too like him, but he's giving me mixed signals. The day before all this. He was friendzoning me and now he's doing all this cute shit! He switches up

[CuteVenus]

I'd say talk it out but I wouldn't
talk about other guys in front of him and see his reaction

[zirconiaxo]

i'll try it

[cuddlenation1994]

Nah that's not gonna solve anything, he'll give you more mixed signals. He doesn't know where to go, you guys need to have a mature talk. It sounds scary but it's not half as bad as you think right now.

[CuteVenus]

@cuddlenation1994 it does sound scary
a talk is perfect but what if what you hear isn't what you wanna hear or it makes things awkward or a million other things but that's just me so honestly @zirconiaxo it's a good idea but I get how scary it is

[cuddlenation1994]

If it's not what you wanna hear then put your time to something else. Woman up and talk to him, in my humble opinion. Men go through this all the time as the courter in the relationship,, as a guy I'm telling you, it's not hard. It takes 10 seconds of courage. Making things awkward is getting way ahead of yourself, take it one step at a time.

[JC103]

Oh... yeah you're breaking a lot of friends with benefits rules

[zirconiaxo]

So you wrekon he is?

[dudegreat]

Nah those things don't automatically mean he wants to be exclusive

[yourwinglady]

he is starting to like you.

[Blackant]

what kind of fuckbuddy is that without sex

[zirconiaxo]

There is sex, i just didn't mention it.

[Blackant]

ok thats important

[Anonymous]

... Yeah he's catching feelings. Big time.

[johnmsk]

seems you are catching feelings for him too :P

[Guitarwizard7]

I wish I had a fuckbuddy lol

[SirRexington]

Me too man me too.