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It's been said time and time again that it's not easy for most men to approach and flirt with a woman in public, and that even the most attractive confident men only have a 30 to 40% chance, at best, to impress a woman.

A 30 to 40% success rate still means rejection the majority of the time, and unlike in the pre-2000s, women nowadays tend to be a lot meaner and less empathetic about this than they used to (sorry, but it's true; a lot of y'all aren't nice).

Women also tend to not understand why only the most attractive, most ballsy 5% of men out there only hit on them, despite how many women will shout at, harass, curse out, or otherwise be viciously mean/rude to normal, decent men attempting to just get to know them better. (Not men being aggressive, rude, or not taking 'no' for an answer; just regular decent dudes.)

As a girl, are you the type to empathize with and understand just how hard it is for a guy (especially a not-handsome, not-fit, not-tall guy) to muster up the courage to ask a complete stranger to get to know him better and begin a potential relationship with him?

... Or are you the type of woman who will reject a guy loudly and rudely, because he was too short/ugly, wasted your time, or "couldn't see the tiny little wedding ring on your finger while you're holding your purse or phone" or something?

WHAT TYPE OF REJECTER ARE YOU WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS HITTING ON YOU?

Inspired by this question here.

Years ago I stopped by cash only tavern that was notable for having musicians play acoustic indie and class rock hits. I remember there was the absolutely gorgeous young blond female singer and guitarist. She was singing Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young hits and she was good at it.

I have appreciated classic rock songs since my early 20s and seeing a beautiful young woman perform them live (and do it well) sent me into a absolute trance.

I remember racking my brains for a way to approach her and not look creepy. I did get a brief conversation with her and she told me her name (which I still remember 10 years) later. I found her FB fan page. Sadly however she moved out of town a few weeks later. But that was a rare moment where I felt completely captivated.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/aoc-condemns-dangerous-police-failure-113704871.html

For those who missed it, a conservative commentator approached her as she entered the capitol and said:

“Here’s AOC, my favorite big booty Latina,” says Stein. “I love you AOC, you’re my favorite. She wants to kill babies but she’s still beautiful, you look very beautiful in that dress, you look very sexy”.

Her response:

"I think the thing that was so crazy about that incident is not even that it happened but that it happened on the Capitol steps right in front of a Capitol police officer and this dude was engaged (in sexual harassment)”.

“This wasn’t about a political opinion or protest or anything like that, he was engaged in very clearly sexually threatening aggressive behaviour right in front of a Capitol police officer, he wasn’t even asked to take a step back,” said Ms Ocasio-Cortez.

Personal note: While she is attractive, I never considered her to be "big booty".