Girls, if you saw the guy you like with another girl, would you wait for him to approach you the next time you saw him? Or would you?

[Anonymous]

Saw the guy I like partner up with a girl in the fitness class at the gym. She was obviously trying to flirt with him. Saw him stare at me a few times during the class, but he didn't acknowledge me. Next time I saw him, in class she wasn't there, and he was staring at me/stealing glances at me again way more, hovering around me, but he didn't approach me. I got the feeling he was waiting for me to approach him. I didn't approach him cause I felt it was up to him if he were indeed interested. If I were in his shoes, and he saw me partner up and talk one on one with a guy in class, I would be the one to acknowledge and talk to him the next time to make sure he knew I was still interested in him.

[Fireguy17]

Go get him, otherwise someone else will.
Go up to him and say hi I'm anonymous, put your hand on hi arm when you are talking to him.
Look in his eyes, don't look away.
Ask if he would like to get whatever they serve there or near by.
A lost opportunity is one you will never get back.
Ask him questions about him self, touch his hand once in a while, no one ever complained that they met someone and all I did was talk about myself.
I never understood why people aren't more direct, it's like we revert back to elementary school and you pass a note to someone to give to someone saying that you like them.
What is the worst that could happen, he says yes, he turns out to be your prince charming and life is good.
Or he says no, but thankyou for asking.
My wife, girlfriend, boyfriend prefers I don't date.
So you took a shot.
You will never know unless you try.
You are an adult, now go get him.

[spartan55]

You women will come up literally any rationalization or excuse for not approaching a guy. So is anything up to you regarding showing interest, or no?

[Guy13]

Snooze and Lose…. He’s probably on a date with her tonight.