Guys, if you saw your crush flirting with another guy, would you wait for her to approach you the next time you see her? Or would you approach her?

[Anonymous]

Guys, if you saw your crush flirting with another guy, would you wait for her to approach you the next time you see her? Or would you approach her? how would you act around them?

[serious]

Well, the given scenario will never actually happen in my life. However, I will answer this hypothetically if this happened.

1. "Guys, if you saw your crush flirting with another guy,"

If this really happened, I would not care one bit. She is single, it is her life and it is her choice. If she wants to just flirt around with men and enjoy her life the way she sees as right then it is fine. I would not care about that type of woman.

I am a very logical person so if this woman is flirting with other men or her nature is such and this even before the dating phase, just in the crushing phase then what will happen if I get into a relationship with such a woman? Things will just get worse then. Yes, I am aware she is single and it is her choice but the logic here is flirting with other men and doing these things are an indication of wanting attention and I really don't need such a person who would be an attention seeker.

I really don't want this type of woman who just flirts with other men for whatever reason. Hence I will just mind my own business.

2." would you wait for her to approach you the next time you see her?"

I will wait for her to approach me. However, it does not really matter as I said in my above point. I would have already made my decision to stay away from such a woman. If she is flirting with other men then that itself is enough for me to decide and conclude that she is interested in the man (it is true or not does not matter to me) she is flirting with and if I see she is smiling and happy then that is good.

Hence even if she approaches me, I will tell her best of luck and wish her success and just leave that place.

3."Or would you approach her?"

No, I will never do that. Given what I have said in the above points

4. "how would you act around them?"

You mean in futuristic sense? after the situation has taken place or when it is happening?

If you talking about when it is happening then I have already explained above. I will just mind my own business and won't do anything. I will be completely indifferent to it.

If you are referring to the future as to how I will act around them, to that my answer would be normal. Like I will have very normal and basic interaction only.

I will never waste my time on stuff like feelings and emotions as they are no good. There are lots of good things to do in life, professionally and for me personally so that is fine. That is how logical I am and how my thought process is.

This answers all your questions.

[Anonymous]

That would give me a another reason to never approach her. I probably would already have created a lot more myself.

[exitseven]

I would walk up to her and get her to leave with me.

[Jackblue]

Once she is with another guy she is off limits to me.

[Sam1133]

Why should I wait? I will flirt with other girls as simple as that...