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You know - what can go wrong with telling the truth?
If he feels the same way, regardless of how he is ready or not to pursue a relation, now you both know the connection is not all in your head.
If he says he doesn't, even if he actually does you still have more peace of mind because you actually got it out of your system.
Win, win - win, win... I say!
Or if you want a little Sinatra:
"Regrets I've had a few but then again too few to mention"
Isn't that a good attitude towards life? Telling the truth and dealing openly with the consequences?10
Not directly. I would invite them out for a coffee or something and talk to them first.
To me, a crush is a fantasy. I like the idea of going out with them but I really don't know anything about them. So let's find out more about them. It's something I have learned the hard way.
Sometimes, during those meetings, I find out they have (or had) a crush on me. Which is kind of cool because we can compare notes on why and have a good laugh.
Worst case I find out they really are not for me. Which kinda sucks.😢10
At 30, I wish I could say yes, but I'd be nervous af. I would tell them, but I'd just cover my eyes with my hands and say what I have to say and admit that I'm scared, nervous, and insecure to open up and be vulnerable and confess but I'm doing it anyway, but with my eyes closed at first. lolol I'm not even kidding
I'm a very bold person usually, everyone knows me as that girl who is not afraid to speak her mind and confront anything... except when I like a guy. Then I suddenly have to be nervous and insecure af. Lame. xD10
What Girls & Guys Said
Only if he's my type and I see any hints of him liking me back.
Otherwise I have huge self respect which I am NEVER willing to sacrifice.
Liking me back is not enough because people nowadays fall in love too fast with any pretty girl or handsome guy so it's not special. Being compatible matters more. I'll not waste my time and hurt myself if we don't have a future.10
I spent my life being shy and going away...
Now i don't have anu crush so i don't know how i'll react...
In my age it's hard to be rejected, also i'm not going to throw myself blindly over anyone if i'm not sure that she wants me 1st...
Even if she was a beauty icon, idc anymore, i just want someone that loves me and comfort me forever and SURELY TO UNDERSTAND ME!10
Whenever another girl and I, that I have a crush on are standing face to face,
I Never shy off and go!!!
I always tell them
and then... I jump their bones and have sex with them!!!
Then I move on to my next crush!!!10
Definitely not, I'm an expert lapper and anytime my crush finds out i like her it's usually by my mates rather than me, or through people, because i simply don't want to make it awkward. It's always a1 way thing with my crushes10
I'll get to know her first. If she has not figured it out by the time I'm ready to say something then I'll go ahead and say it, but first I want to be sure it is not just a crush.30
Shy away, for sure. If I'm gonna confess to my crush like that, I have to have gotten the distinct impression that she's just as into me as I am into her, and my insecurities would probably get in the way of that, frankly.30
My last crush I have regretted that I didn't tell him how I felt, so if I had the opportunity I'd hope that I'd finally have to courage to tell him how I felt.10
That situation itself will never occur in my life. Simple. Reason is I have never had any sort of crushes and I wish to remain single for life.
Hence not applicable in my case.10
I can't make eye contact but i can hold a convo. So now i wouldn't say im interested straight up but i’d get to know em and flirt and see if the feelings mutual before i confess10
I would have no problem asking my crush out, I've bkacked out on my feet from drinking stumbling around and when I came to i was lip locked with girls no I've never met before. This happened on more than one occasion.10
fuck it, if i want chesse cake i eat the fucking chesse cake, i dont let it go fucking bad are ya nuts, its fucking chesse cake10
I don't currently have a crush. But knowing myself I would shy away, keep it to myself. (Maybe tell a trusted friend, but that's it)10
She wouldn’t need more to tell her unless she’s completely obtuse. I don’t hide it when I like Scheinangebots, and it’s completely obvious.10
That's something one shouldn't just bluntly blurt off.20
I would say something. The worst that can happen is that they are not interested. If that's the case what choice do you have but to keep on living life.20
I'd probably strike up a conversation, can't say I'd be confident enough to tell them though haha10
I would be shy and probably freeze and then melt to the ground10
Depends on how long I've known them. If we have an established friendship, I'd probably keep my feelings to myself.10
⚫I would be like hey girl; you are having a nice smile and I feel attracted to you. And I am soon to call you my crush once we can grab a coffee together.20
No I first get to know the person so I'm sure it's not just 'blind love'10
It depends on a few things-
If he's single and I think there might be some interest there, such as in how he interacts with me? Heck yeah I'll tell him! Yeah, there's a strong chance I'll be rejected, but it's better than not knowing how he feels about you, or letting someone else get him.
But if I'm not sure of his relationship status, or he doesn't interact or show any interest in me? Nope. I know better than to waste my time, lol.