If it’s a man doing it, it’s understandable because he’s the one approaching most of the time and rejection is far more common for men then women. Our society teaches us that men approach. So why do women still come here to complain saying that relationships are not worth it in our day and age.
Women are not able to handle the idea of a large world very well. The advent of the normalization of the internet being used for socialization and dating really fucked shit up for everyone. Humans have problem with having too many options and this goes for partners all the way down to groceries. When presented a small number of options people generally tend to make a selection and have more satisfaction with that selection; but when presented with too many options the selection process becomes a stressful situation that results in lower satisfaction and sometimes no selection being made at all. We all have this in us; however, women seem to be drastically more likely to experience extreme optional paralysis and are unable to differentiate the real world and their truly limited options from the internet and the practically infinite options. As a result women, as a consequence of having inconceivably large numbers of options believe that they will always have another better option. If you pair this with their collectivist nature you find them becoming even more selective. When amplified by a culture that feeds women the lie that they should never settle you get a recipe for the situation we have today. And the final cherry on top of all of this? Female neurobiology research has found that when women are rejected romantically they lash out at men for the long term; not only do they lash out at men they refuse to date anyone even remotely close to the level of the man they are attracted to and take joy in rejecting men across the board.
Basically, as much as women have been told that they are better communicators and more emotionally competent, science has more or less proven that they are about as functional in a modern civilization as someone from a remote previously unconnected tribe would be.
I've got a study that I’d love to see done at some point comparing the normal female brain to brains of children and addicts in how their dopamine systems operate. I don’t think it could possibly get done in the culture we are in right now, but when things go back to normal, I think this would make a fascinating study. Granted when things go back to normal women won’t have a lot of rights they have now, but hey actions and decisions have consequences.
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One of the perspectives women often don't acknowledge is that they aren't actively working on becoming a quality mate themselves. This goes for most people today, but here I'm referring to women exclusively. Women get constant attention from men via social media for various reasons that I won't get into here. The point is, whether it be from simps or fuckboys, it is a lot. Thus, most modern women incorrectly equate an abundance of attention from low quality men, as an indicator that they are high value simply because they are in demand. This is a nuance that social media has presented women with, which is why most women don't even see a need to become higher quality. So as a result, most modern men are less likely to commit to modern women because the quality of women has diminished, and because the access to sex has become so much easier due to hook up culture, and women aren't focused on becoming better quality because they often don't realize they should. This is such a complex issue that humanity is facing for the very first time, so it doesn't do anyone any good to point fingers. While it isn't any easier to find quality mates, the best way to use the current dating dynamic to your advantage is to become a higher quality mate yourself. As you do that, you'll attract more potential mates, and be default increase your chances of finding someone worth your time. It's all about perspective.
Their problem isn’t the same as the guys problem. They have no difficulty getting dates but the guys they date treat them bad and don’t commit long term. Not saying guys don’t have problems, but girls who can’t find good guys also have problems, I had a friend who was abused so terribly she ended up in the hospital because her boyfriend thought he could get away with it.
Finding a man is easy. Finding a quality man is damn near impossible.
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It is comical... they complain about men in the world... they complain about men here. And they wonder why they are without a man. Who wants to try to endure them when they constantly are acting out negatively... I have only heard of two "Good Drama" relationship pieces on here. That tells one much about...
Who the fuck would date a woman today? Guys, get out of your blue pill mindset and swallow the red pill. Go ahead and spend time with women and for fuck sake, get as much ass as you possibly can. Do not ever take a woman on a fucking date.
For women, it's not about getting just any guy; she has a particular man she wants but can't entice. It's a more intentional and purposeful dating problem.
Because the balance is starting to finally shift as more more men are checking out. There are great women out there, I know them, but they tend to be taken!
Guys:
“Holy shit a girl likes me? Wowee!” 🤩
Girls:
“Another guy who isn’t my soul-mate... Meh.” 😒
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