Girls, when a guy in public flirts with you, in which style do you usually reject him or tell him you're not interested?

[MCheetah]

Do women still appreciate men flirting with them in the 2020s?

It's been said time and time again that it's not easy for most men to approach and flirt with a woman in public, and that even the most attractive confident men only have a 30 to 40% chance, at best, to impress a woman.

A 30 to 40% success rate still means rejection the majority of the time, and unlike in the pre-2000s, women nowadays tend to be a lot meaner and less empathetic about this than they used to (sorry, but it's true; a lot of y'all aren't nice).

Women also tend to not understand why only the most attractive, most ballsy 5% of men out there only hit on them, despite how many women will shout at, harass, curse out, or otherwise be viciously mean/rude to normal, decent men attempting to just get to know them better. (Not men being aggressive, rude, or not taking 'no' for an answer; just regular decent dudes.)

As a girl, are you the type to empathize with and understand just how hard it is for a guy (especially a not-handsome, not-fit, not-tall guy) to muster up the courage to ask a complete stranger to get to know him better and begin a potential relationship with him?

... Or are you the type of woman who will reject a guy loudly and rudely, because he was too short/ugly, wasted your time, or "couldn't see the tiny little wedding ring on your finger while you're holding your purse or phone" or something?

WHAT TYPE OF REJECTER ARE YOU WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS HITTING ON YOU?

Inspired by this question here.

I rarely ever reject or dismiss men who come up to flirt with me; I appreciate the gesture!

I usually tell men I'm not interested in a nice/empathetic-but-clear way.

It differs wildly on a case-by-case difference and I can be polite or mean based on things (such as his looks, age, height, weight, etc).

I usually tell men I'm not interested in an aggressive or hostile manner, to make it loud and clear.

Just here to see the results.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I tell him that I am not actively looking for a relationship, but if it happens, I won't stop it. I definitely appreciate the gesture. After all, it takes a lot of courage to ask someone out who you like.
But if I know that a relationship is his goal, I tell him that I am currently not comfortable giving out my number. Because they all keep flirting or pushing and try to 'go in for the kill', but my head isn't there so then I end up having to distance myself from them.
So I hope they respect that. Or they move on or they stay at my snail pace.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Once I notice they're flirting, I try to be polite and tell them. Most guys will apologize walk away. Some guys will ask then if we can still talk and maybe be friends. But then there's those that need a heavier handed no; the guys who won't take no for an answer and keep pushing it "are you happy with him?" "Does he treat you like the queen you look like" etc

[Daniela1982]

I never have that problem. But if I did I would tell him if he beats me in a race I will go out with him.

[MCheetah]

Aw, the caveman method, I see! "She can't say no to you if she can't outrun you!" 😂

[exitseven]

damn, twenty years ago i would have taken you up on that.

[Daniela1982]

@exitseven 20 years ago I didn't even have a driver's license.

[exitseven]

@daniela1982 hahahaha

[IceCreamSandwich]

Ironically in my experience if she rejects you really harshly, she's usually not good girlfriend material. Like the red flag when they're mean to waiters, they're probably just mean people.