Do you think that if a guy doesn't flirt with you he's not interested, girls?

[Anonymous]

do you think that if a guy doesn't flirt with you he's not interested?

[macchonk]

Some guys just doesn't wanna give girls the impression that they might be overconfident w themself by straight up flirting w them on their first encounter.. Though girls need to be advised on how guys usually try to have eye contact w you girls, even for just a couple seconds, that by itself is a way for some guys to let you girls know that he thinks that you are attractive... Though again, if it's me, I would try to have a small talk even if it's just a statement that might be ignored simply because there's no discussion value to it...

[Anonymous]

i hate how girls have to be that way

[Anonymous]

Yes. That's what I believe even though I know some guys may be shy. I currently have a massive crush on a guy who is in fact my friend. He is really kind with me, we literally talk every day. I would have believed he liked me too, but never flirted ever since we knew each other. So that makes me confused, and makes me believe I'm actually just a friend to him.

[demonpixie]

It depends on the guy. Some guys flirt with everyone, so it might be hard to tell. While other guys are shy and timid. I think a guy is interested if he talks to me a lot, if he is around me more then before, and I can general pick up on a guy's vibe as I am constantly around men. (But that does not make me a guy expert and sometimes I have been wrong!)

[Angel0702]

No! Some guys are really shy! Or they are afraid the girl would be offended. My boyfriend didn't really flirt with me the first time we dated or this time. He wanted to be friends so I could get to know him without the possibility of dating so that when we did, I knew what I really thought about him.

[Twincapersred]

no- I know for a fact there are at least 3 men who fancy me- theyve never said more than hi to me- they are very shy- but I can tell they like me but the constant and repeating stares

[AliceMcKay]

Yes, or else, how would we know?

But I also think that if a guy flirts with me, he is not always interested, some guys just flirt with everyone.

[brunette94]

I have a question to your question, do you guys flirt without REALLY flirting? like y'know those slight comments like when you say you're doing something, and then he'll reply "aw, that's cute" or simple things like that...are you guys flirting or what?

but to answer your question, it's really hard to decode your actions without direct flirtation :b

[Bombshell13]

If he doesn't flirt, he's not interested. If he doesn't contact me, he's not interested. If he doesn't initiate or ask to hang out, he's not interested.

[Sbsbdicjf]

Most definitely and ridiculously not true.

[amber622]

yep, I personally need to see the flirting for me to know he's interested.

[Asker]

what if he doesn't know how to flirt?

[amber622]

well it's not to hard, just try and make the small talk with her, go out of your way to talk to her. Hug her bye (unless she is not into that) but typically most girls love hugs. Look at her, smile, joke around with her and make a joke about her not a mean one by the way! Just kinda funny joking. Like teasing. I'm sure other girls on here have better ideas for guys flirting but those are just what come to mind for me.

[rigbyeleanor]

yup. sure do. guys will either flirt with you or be oblivious that you exist.

[eims1031]

It is the main way of letting someone know if your attracted to them or not, we live in the 21st century it only make sense so flirt if you like someone

[Anonymous]

i think if he doen't talk to me or ask me out he's not interested

[goalie17]

yes, how else is a girl supposed to know..

[Twincapersred]

sometimes you just know