If a guy doesn't flirt back with you, is it because he's not interested? Or could he just be bad at flirting?

Me: I think you're cute
Him: oh I don't know what to say lol
Me: Do you think I'm cute?
Him: yeah you're pretty cute lol
Me: oh ok, haha then you could say that :)
Him: well ok lol


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  • Boys are dumb. My girlfriend had to frequently fish for compliments, or ask "do I look ok", etc. I didn't grow up knowing how to be nice like that, it's just not part of me normally, but I'm trying to learn. It's hard because I don't think about stuff, so maybe don't read into it to much?

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  • When guys say lol kinda pisses me off. It feels like he playing with ya. But never know. But the fact that he said ur pretty cute. I think he's a little interested. Test the waters a bit more and then go for it girl.

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  • Better way to describe would be not clicking then staying it's never going to happen. A more reserved guy would not jump head first into something. If he chews this for a few days and then gets it.
    If he's more humble try connecting on interests or activity.

    Also is this over text? A lot of guys use texting as basic utility for info. He might need a face and tone to pick up flirting.

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  • Honestly, there's no way to know.
    These texts look like he could be very bad at flirting, but they also look like he's not that interested in you.
    Nothing is 100% sure here

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  • He's bad at flirting lol

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  • Yeah he just isn't good at flirting, also using lol a lot im not too sure about his confidence

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  • Shy guy doesn't know how to express.

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  • He's not interested.

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    • Don't listen to the guys saying he's just nervous... he's not. I mean maybe he is a bit, but it's because he doesn't know what to say because he's not interested and there's nothing safe to say in that situation. If he was interested, you would KNOW it.

  • 100% ,, he is bad in flirting

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  • Shy person obviously

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  • Some guys can't flirt I love to take it higher

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  • It depends on the guy

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  • He is bad at flirting

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  • He's bad at flirting lol

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  • he's just bad

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  • he's nervous

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  • Bad at flirting

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  • Could be terrible. Could. be trying to give you a Stonewall

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  • He is bad at flirting.

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  • Not interested at all... Or have intrest in someone else

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  • Just bad at flirting I think

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  • Totally me
    Her: I think you're cute
    Me: the fuck? (Saying it under my breath). Are you Alright?
    Her: yeah, why?
    Me: well, because i don't know how to respond to that.
    Her: how about me, how do i look?
    Me: you look... fine, i guess.
    Her: ok
    Me: ok

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