I want to suggest a meetup with a girl I've met online. What are some low pressure things I can suggest we do?

[Anonymous]

So, here's the situation; I met a fantastic girl on reddit a few months back. The vibe is fantastic, she's gorgeous, we have lots in common; this girl is pretty much a perfect match with me on paper. And, thank heavens, it seems like she basically feels the same way about me. There's a lot of heck yeah in the air, and I really haven't ever felt this way about anyone before.

Because we live in different parts of the country and don't really know each other, I thought it might be nice for us to meet in a 3rd location to spend time together. I figured that we could each rent hotels, have dinner, and if she's still feeling things; have a few activities we could go do on an extended weekend type thing.

She lives in Texas, I'm in PA. I was thinking of going to Nashville, or something along those lines. Is this a good idea? How do you suggest I approach this?

[Avicenna]

I'd suggest visiting her, where she'll be more comfortable about meeting a stranger. Find out what she likes to do and plan accordingly.

[In_Trance]

Ridiculous

[Asker]

lol that's what I was worried about too! Thankfully we've managed to get passed that. I know this woman is real.