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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we went through a lot and marriage talk is on the table (we are early 30s). He has a female friend that he has known for many years, they don’t see each other often but I wonder if I’m paranoid. She is married with kids now but has always been “the cool girl who is accomplished”. He tried to move 3 times to her city (she has moved over the years for better career/family etc), convincing me it is a better option too (and they are in some ways). I felt he is comparing me to her. During one group dinner with friends, we talked about ring and he grabbed her hand to look at her ring, then told me how great of a pick it is. To add the cherry on top of everything, the waiter thought she was his wife when he came take our order (there were a table full of people and can be hard to tell). Since she is married I don’t think they are ever possible but it still makes me paranoid. She is cute but I think I’m better looking objectively, so I also don’t want to come off pathetic and jealous for no reason. Does he like her and should I address it?

I seen messages of him complimenting a girl he was with before me. So I lied and said I saw messages (they didn’t exist) saying you hated mines and preferred hers and he said what I’ve seen is out of context and him being funny. We had a bad break up and he hated me.

He said to me he preferred me and all his friends knew that. When we were together he would always want sex off me and was so annoyed I’d reject him a lot. He said he never stopped looking at me and if he wanted to this ex still really wanted him he could have had her if he wanted to. Which is true.

But he would rarely compliment me and if it was it was always about my bum. He went on and on about how big it was etc. but to get more than that I had to ask.

He said I knew how hot I was so he didn’t want to compliment me and everyone knows I’m hot and my ego is huge. I get a lot of attention and people messaging me and he was jealous. He didn’t get attention and I did. He said I was so big headed with this (I wasn’t) so he didn’t like complimenting me

He said look at his instagram following and the models he follows they all have my body type which is true they do. And he told me he watched porn with girls with my exact body type and I looked so much like them. Which is also true.

She had the opposite body to me I’m smaller boobs a small c cup and big bum and she had bigger boobs and a really small bum. He’s always said his type is big bums and she doesn’t care about boobs. But “bigged hers up” and found them perfect.

Did he hate my body and prefer her?