Why would a girl be overwhelmed/irritated with her boyfrien coddling her?

[WilliamPamer446]

I think it there indepandance or autonomy?

Or maybe they just hate being told there special and perfect constantly, cuz it stunt there

growth?

[alice55]

She don't like the guy, she don't like being touched or she had a bad days. More than likely she don't like the guy

[WilliamPamer446]

I meant boyfriend.

If you don't like your boyfriend you should break up not whine

[WilliamPamer446]

Women control Nice Guys they don't like

[alice55]

Many people are afraid of being in single also some dude refuse their girl break up with them they don't let them do so

Some do when they're in time of need (like needing support and such)

[WilliamPamer446]

ya don't don't conflate that with nice guys or bad boy, just cal it obsessive controlling behavior

[WilliamPamer446]

it's the behavior, not the personality

[WilliamPamer446]

unless being overly nice leads to possession?

Maybe, so stop telling guys to be nice to girls in every context

[alice55]

I never said to guys to be nice to women, I just tell them to show me their true personality so I can know with what I deal with no need to fake being nice if you aren't, people sense the kind of stuff

[WilliamPamer446]

everyone fake nowadays u should want kind and strong mean

[alice55]

They're all taken, I have no illusion about the world of today anyway most people have toxic trait

[WilliamPamer446]

Yes most people do and men/women gotta work on themself

[chihiro405]

it's completely personal. I'm like that girl. when talking of hugging, kissing, touching and etc, I feel bothered, even with my family. it's not related that they have problem they also know how much I love them but it's my own decision. due to childhood traumas and experiences, perhaps it's rare for her to be touched and she's not used to be in that situation. I hope my opinion would be useful.

[WilliamPamer446]

I mean overindulge and spoil more than physically

[WilliamPamer446]

I hear you though

[Anonymous]

Sadly many modern women are soo self-centered and spoiled they would be overwhelmed or irritated by anything. And have a toxic idea of femininity that its ok to simply expect others to take care of even their own feelings for them.

[RedThread]

It might feel clingy or that you're infantilizing her.

[WilliamPamer446]

Second one I get

[Godihateyou]

Women HATE people that love or need them.

[WilliamPamer446]

I agree but why

[Godihateyou]

Whybdo you agree? Probably because you are wise. Why do women behave like that? Because they are woman. A wise man doesn't care what a bitch thinks.