Why does a boy blocks a girl when he's angry on her?

[Anonymous]

He expressed me his love. He thought I'm rejecting him due to a misunderstanding. He blocked me right away. I really wanted to accept his love. He didn't knew that. I tried messaging him through other social media but I didn't say him that I'm accepting his love and he again got angry on me and blocked me there too. Now he made me unable to contact him everywhere. If I don't clear him the misunderstanding now and don't say him my feelings, I'll lose him permanently. What should I do in this situation?

He confessed me his love after loving me for 6 years and blocked me everywhere due to a simple misunderstanding. Should I dump him and accept a different guy? Or should I text him by another number by explaining my feelings to him and asking for another opportunity from him?

[Summeroflove]

Well it seems like he dumped you, he could have a lot of things going on in his head. But if somebody blocks you just leave them be and block them back so they can’t come back and play games later.

Yeah, it does hurt but for whatever reason it could be he’s not wanting to talk to you or he’s trying to reject you before you can reject him.

Just allow yourself time to grieve it you’re in denial about it. You don’t want to admit that someone you deeply cared about has done this to you. But you can’t save someone from themselves who doesn’t want to be saved. You can still care about him and move on. Not hating him but just understanding he has something going on in his brain

As for reasons, it could be a mixture of things. I have some guesses. Like I said it could be he wants to reject you before you can reject him. He may have taken it as rejection and there’s no going past it. He may have lost interest. He may be trying to shut you out to hurt you. Anything is possible.

All in all. He blocked you. Just leave him alone.

[Asker]

Why do you say that he dumped me when he started expressing me his love?

[Asker]

I said him from another social media that I'll not accept his love if he continues being violent to me and he blocked me there for that explanation
What's wrong with him?

[Summeroflove]

He blocked you

[Summeroflove]

Asker I don’t know. But I would just leave him alone. If someone blocks you just leave it at that. You may have dodged a bullet

[Asker]

A person can block someone when they're offended

[Asker]

Why do you always put a same tag of rejection to all situations?

[Summeroflove]

Asker blocking someone because they’re offended is rejecting you. If he wanted to talk he would unblock you and talk. Leave him alone

[Summeroflove]

For me personally if I’ve blocked someone I’ve done everything that I can do to communicate with someone to leave me alone.

Maybe that’s not his communication style. Maybe he’s immature. But at the end of the day you’re BLOCKED I am not being rude. I’m sorry if it’s not the answer you want. It’s just the truth.

[Asker]

He expressed his feelings opinion owner

[Asker]

Before blocking he expressed his feelings. I made a comment casually due to which he got offended by misunderstanding me

[Summeroflove]

Asker I know what he did. He isn’t communicating how he feels or clearing the misunderstanding up that I don’t even know the whole story on.

It’s just the fact that he blocked you says you should leave him alone

[Summeroflove]

It could be a number of reaosns as to why he did it. But it hurts I genuinely get it hurts and you’re allowed to feel hurt.

But if you blocked someone you wouldn’t want them contacting you anymore. Despite what ever reason may be behind it.

[Asker]

If I blocked a boy who I love, I expect him to contact me through other way to accept my love. If he doesn't, I'll keep him blocked permanently. What if he's a kind of person who's like this?

[Summeroflove]

Asker that is NOT normal. Why would anyone want to be witn someone whose blocked them?

If someone blocks me I never contact them again obviously they either don’t want to talk or are playing games.

Like I said just leave him alone. Plain and simple. Leave him alone

[Summeroflove]

It’s so stupid to block someone you love. That will chase them off permanently and I assume he’s with another woman now so. It’s your loss.

This must be why you get into these situations and you wonder why people play
The same games witn you.

Leave this person alone. He probably got tired of your games

[Asker]

Summer of love. I rejected him earlier. He blocked me on one social media. I contacted him on other social media and he confessed me his love. He thought I'm rejecting him again due to misunderstanding and he blocked me there. Won't it be a great idea if I send him a text through other way and say him sorry? Won't be keep me back in his life again?

[Summeroflove]

Well you blocked him once. He’s done playing games with you. I would be too

[Summeroflove]

It’s OVER there isn’t any other way of putting it

[Asker]

Why did he confess me his love then?

[Summeroflove]

Probably because he did but he got tired of playing games

[Summeroflove]

Learn your lesson you’re the one who pushed him away. There’s only so much someone can take and eventually you move onn

[Asker]

Ok. I am moving on

[Summeroflove]

That’s the best thing to do. Don’t play those games anymore or you’ll keep chasing people away

[Asker]

I never played games on him. I never blocked him. He played games on me

[Summeroflove]

Okay asker but you said you blocked him before and he contracted you on another social media website. Whatever the case may be. Like I said what’s done is done

[Summeroflove]

And that you expected him to contact you. He really gave you more chances the most would. I’m not saying he should have blocked without giving a reason why but

[Summeroflove]

You first said

“If I blocked a boy who I love, I expect him to contact me through other way to accept my love. If he doesn't, I'll keep him blocked permanently. What if he's a kind of person who's like this?”

And that’s wrong most people once blocked will just move on

[Summeroflove]

“Summer of love. I rejected him earlier. He blocked me on one social media. I contacted him on other social media and he confessed me his love. He thought I'm rejecting him again due to misunderstanding and he blocked me there. Won't it be a great idea if I send him a text through other way and say him sorry? Won't be keep me back in his life again?”

And maybe I misunderstood so sorry. He already did block you once and then again. But you said you did reject him first…. So I think that he just figured this wasn’t going anywhere.

He was probably playing games too if that’s what he was doing. But at least neither one of you has to waste your time anymore and you can both move on

[Asker]

But it was a 6 years love. I moving on a good decision?

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it is. It’s over with. He blocked you and you played games. Maybe you both played games. It’s over move on

[Summeroflove]

You may need some time to grieve maube you’re still in the denial phase. But it’s over…. What’s done is done

[Asker]

I get it that you wanna see me moving on. But how can he do this to a 6 year love over a one misunderstanding?

[Summeroflove]

You said you’re moving on. Leave him alone.

[Summeroflove]

I mean you rejected him…. So. Honestly he got tired of the games probably or he’s playing games. Maybe you were his only option at the time so he strang you along.

There’s many possible reasons. But don’t contact him again

[Asker]

There was a time one of my girl friend blocked me. I asked her why she did and she told me that I'm rude to her so she blocked me. What if he's the same kind of guy like her? She again unblocked me by herself when she thought that she needs me. What if that guy is same like her?

[Summeroflove]

Because either he genuinely doesn’t want to talk anymore or he's playing games. I’m sorry it’s 6 years wasted time. At least it’s not anymore time

[Summeroflove]

Asker maybe you have a habit of being rude to people. So people give you another chance.

Just leave him be….. honestly leave him
Alone don’t obsess over him

[Summeroflove]

You said earlier you’re moving on. …. Do it.

[Asker]

He's still playing games? What happens if I contact him again?

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know if he is but he may genuinely be done. It could be considered harassment if he wanted to push the issue.

Leave him the hell alone I cannot be anymore clear

[Asker]

I will clear him a misunderstanding that I was not rejecting him. I'll move on with my life after clearing him with this. Let him stay or leave it's his choice

[Summeroflove]

Don’t contact him at all. Just move on

[Summeroflove]

I can promise you this isn’t going to go anywhere. Either he’s going to get angry you contacted him OR…. You’re gonna play the same old game just to have the same thing happen

[Asker]

What happens if I clear him a misunderstanding before moving on?

[Summeroflove]

Don’t contact him at all….

[Summeroflove]

I mean I can’t stop you from doing what you’re gonna do anyways. But I’m not giving you the answer you want to hear.

If you wanna know what’s best? Don’t say anything.

[Asker]

If I don't say anything I'm worried if he never forgives me again. I was not rejecting him. I want him to know this

[Summeroflove]

It doesn’t matter what he thinks at this point. You need to move on and find somebody else

[Summeroflove]

The best way to let him forgive you is to leave him be and he will probably move on

[Asker]

I don't wanna him move on

[Summeroflove]

You can’t stop him from doing anything. All you’re gonna do is obsess over him and piss him off.

Leave him alone and move on with your own life.

[Summeroflove]

What you’re doing is borderline stalkerish. You said you’re moving on. Moving on means you don’t care if he moved on and are happy for him if he did.

Maybe you both will find someone who makes you happy and he will do the same

[Asker]

I move on after clearing misunderstanding to him. Let him think I'm chasing him. He can understand I'm actually fixing his broke heart later

[Summeroflove]

No….. it’s OVER

[Summeroflove]

Leave him alone. Seriously stop chasing him. If you want to heal his broken heart let him go

[Asker]

To heal his broken heart, he needs to hear what he wanted to hear earlier

[Asker]

If I were in his place, I expect the same and if a boy does that to me, I'll be with him again.

[Summeroflove]

I’m not going to argue. Leave him ALONE!

[Summeroflove]

It’s too late…. Leave him alone

[Summeroflove]

Asker. Leave him alone.

[Asker]

Why you wanna break us and not give any suggestions on how to get back?

[Asker]

I don't believe in breaking relationships for silly reasons as your reasons

[Summeroflove]

The relationship is over when you’re blocked. You know that. Move on like you said you were going to

[Summeroflove]

Do you understand? He broke the relationship off by blocking you and I can see why he would have. There is no reasoning with you. I would have broken it off a lot longer ago then he has.

He gave you more chances then I ever would have

[Summeroflove]

And you give your way of thinking. You know his mind doenst think like yours. He probably wants a consistent loving healthy relationship. Not this….

[Asker]

I need a consistent one. He is acting inconsistent

[Summeroflove]

And so are you…. It’s over with and he’s not going to change. Let him go waste someone else’s time

[Summeroflove]

If you need a consistent one. Look for someone else.

[Asker]

I got back with him. He forgiven me

[Asker]

Please don't break people's relationships by giving useless advices

[Summeroflove]

I’m not giving useless advice because this game is never going to end. If you don’t want honest answers asker don’t ask.

Because I would bet money the same thing will happen over and over. Until one of you has the maturity to end thingd

[Summeroflove]

It won’t be long and you’ll be back to playing games. Hopefully not…., maybe you’ll both grow up and have a healthy relationship. But my money isn’t on it

[Asker]

I will never end it. I said him that I need him permanently and then he gave me another opportunity to stay with him

[Summeroflove]

I hope it works out for you especially if you’re wanting something consistent

[Asker]

Yeah. He got into a misunderstanding earlier. I said him I love him back and I'll stay permanently with him. He unblocked me and staying with me

[Summeroflove]

Stay with him but if something like this happens again and there isn’t any communication and it’s playing these same games…. Just end it and find something more stable.

Hopefully it works out. But if it doesn’t do you really wanna keep going through this?

[Asker]

I don't

[Summeroflove]

Well…. At the end of the day if this happens again, you’re going to need to decide what to do. Because I’ve seen this same old story a million times. Where people keep playing these games

[Asker]

Yeah

[Summeroflove]

I mean it could mature into a genuine relationship if you both mature. But even if one person does you can’t force the other to. Someone has to choose to

[LiamJHayden]

I don't, but I have been blocked many times over petty nothingness so i know it happens.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't really matter. Sounds like he can do better anyways.

[strateguy632]

Because he doesn't want to argue.