Girls, How do approach a woman as a bigger guy?

[Anonymous]

My whole problem with women my whole life has been a severe fear of rejection by women. I'm terrified they're going to yell at me or humiliate me. I also don't know what kind of women I'm allowed to talk to. I wouldn't say go up to model and talk to her. I'm chubby by not huge. I don't know if I'm ugly or not either. I've never been told if I am or not. I know not to put a picture up.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Looks just get you in the door, but personality gets you invited in to stay the night. Be charming, funny, and confident and you will have a chance at finding someone.

Be realistic, as you said, it's gonna be hard to land a model, but not impossible. Still it's easier to work with if you aren't feeling like you are batting upwards.

Finally, if you aren't comfortable with your weight, you can always try to lose it.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Sounds crazy buy try a dating app and get comfortable talking to women that way... honestly I'm to shy to go straight up to a man and ask them out but online I was such a flirt ans has so muxh confidence

[Asker]

They never answer. The one time I did get an answer I got catfished. I'm very wary of dating online. Well the other messages I did get were of the you're not good enough for me type.

[deniz_9]

dude i feel youuu i also can't approach 😭. i think if you approach you likely won't be rejected? i wish i had more experience to tell you. really sorry but wish you the best 🫶