Guys, how do you want a woman to make a move on you when it comes to approaching you?

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Ladies, what do you do to let a man know you’re interested with them?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Just be polite and honest with me , I love honest girls’ that know what they want , i consider myself pretty laid back and outgoing and honest as well Nothing really fazes me much anymore , especially how this world is today , Why I am attracted to girls that are honest , I don’t want a girl that has to lie to me to get with me , if she is honest with me , she has a way better chance of getting what she wants from me , without trust we really don’t have nothing in common is how I see things , Sadly most girls’ I have met can’t be honest , they always hold secrets or keep secrets until they get what they were after in the first place after they get me in bed they start confessing their secrets that they are already seeing someone else , or married to someone else , they say that aren’t happy in their current relationships etc. I then lose respect for her that she lied to my face to begin with , what am I supposed to do? It’s ok baby thanks for the great sex , go back to your partner and I will just wait here for you to come back when it’s convenient for you. I hate to say it but Girls’ are just as bad or worst than guys’ are labeled to be. I feel Girls’ are just more sneaky about it. Stop screwing with people’s hearts , why is that so hard for people to do? It’s because they are selfish

JHAYES317 · Accepted Answer

Literally just walk on up and say “hey do you have a girlfriend”, and then if no, follow up by “great cause I think you’re hot”. Boom

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I don't know sometimes when I walk down the street if you acknowledge men and give them a smile they usually will chat you up. I had at least 1 or 2 men do that to me in the city centre, every time I went lol.
Men are ignored in society a lot. I try to be kind and I even acknowledge homeless men and say no sorry I don't have any lol but even just saying that to them they'll say god bless you because they are ignored constantly by people so just speaking to them helps them feel seen at least. Which shows you men also need attention, they are basically starved for it. You don't even have to do a lot or put effort, I'm serious lol.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

I let them know one way or another... but it's for getting to know them better... not for hooking up, dating, or whatever. I take my time... I'm not in a hurry...

most men don't get it... they think if a woman flirts and banters with them, she is already theirs... and it's not the case with me. I'm not a frequent client of pubs or clubs. So we won't meet as often as expected. And before I share my phone number I need to be sure about this man... so it depends on him if he wants to follow my pace or not :D

RavVid · Answer

A woman was very talkative to me the other day at my local cafe.

After I finished my coffee, my route took me past her table, and i did the polite thing had a polite chat on the way and bent to pat her dog. She took my hand as I did. It was a fairly clear statement I could have her if I wanted.

My penis said No. She was OK looking but didn't interest me is all.

Unless you can see the outline of an erection in our pants, I think be approachable & entertaining is the best tactic.

Some girls are quite clever in that they can make it ungentlemanly of you NOT to invite them out. That has always worked on me.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I feel that most guys don’t understand subtlety so be direct , confident and don’t play games. These are not “moves” though and there is no way to answer on behalf of all men , we are individuals and of course it largely depends on how attracted he is to you how he would react

MrNameless · Answer

Here's the thing.. I don't mind, and I would be very flattered. But I'm only going to respond if I like them back. The very first thing I notice is physical attraction. If I'm not attracted to them physically, I likely won't show interest. Obviously it's not everything for a long term relationship. It keeps me hooked. but it is important to me.

tzdc21 · Answer

I like her to be to the point and not these little "hints." Because whenever we encounter "hints," it always goes badly. Either we miss them all together and we miss out on her, OR we mistake her actions only to be hit with the "I was just being friendly" or "You're creepy" quotes. Straight up say, I like you and I wanna go out with you. No hints, no games, no nonsense.

Kris31 · Answer

I mean when she approaches me at all i assume there's interest in getting to know me. I don't think I'd need more then just talk to me / strike up a conversation out of nowhere :D

jadeXcatastro62 · Answer

Umm, I would try to get their attention which doesn’t always work 🫤🤣. I’m old school, so I most likely let the man come up to me. I don’t usually come up to the guy at all. But if he’s really hot, I might just try to start a conversation and see how we would get along.

Booklover_90 · Answer

I think a guy is trying to ask me out, but in a “safe” way. (It’s a long story that I can’t go into right now). Anyway, I plan to take him up on his offer. That way, I will show him that I’m interested in hanging out/going on a date. 😊

dolemite58 · Answer

If an attractive woman approaches me I usually assume she’s a prostitute or leading me somewhere to get robbed 😂

spartan55 · Answer

Doesn't really matter as long as she verbally says something. "I love that new Cafe, want to join me there sometime?" short, simple, to the point.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

grab my cock. just be forward. i get the nervous, shy aspect, but conversation sometimes doesn't cut it

jahaims · Answer

Unless you are just a complete weirdo it is hard to mess that up as a female. Confidence is cute and being shy can be cute. Worse case is you are turned down and make a guys day.

NathanDavis · Answer

just like they always have... being themselves

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Just be nice and talk to me, ask me questions and tell me about yourself. 🤔

JayBones · Answer

She should walk up, grab my dick and say "khaki carpenter pants is the perfect way to plate my dinner"

Yannae · Answer

To just tell me what's on your mind. No body signals, no trying to hint things. Just say it.

dragoblack · Answer

Being honest and straightforward with her intentions. I value actual human interaction, not the mind-game bs people play nowadays.

OtterMan68 · Answer

just smile, share a compliment, and introduce herself

Nifrayu · Answer

Introduce yourself and start up a conversation in a friendly way.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Honestly, just that lingerie glance and a big ol smile followed by maybe trying to converse with me, so good enough for me..

standardguy · Answer

She just has to smile and show being open by body language.

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

However she wants just be upfront so there's no misunderstanding

Krishna_Indian · Answer

a simple approach. i dont like things to go real quick. want it to be slow and nice. this way we get to know each other easily.

Dreamclouds · Answer

Sometimes is nice yes, depends on context and such

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Approx.:She can say "hello", and we'll hit it off, froM there.

Grond21 · Answer

Someone we don't know?

shortster · Answer

If she asks me out on a date.

katiesmuff · Answer

In those days I would flirt in a very obvious way.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Being as subtle as a brick through a window

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Just introduce yourself and have some good conversation

Fuentes · Answer

Tell me u wanna smash

DextroShade · Answer

Just be honest and direct.

Jerre · Answer

Simply start talking to me

sing_in_the_shower · Answer

she could say and or do almost anything

CFNM_utelias · Answer

smile chat touch...

moviedude714 · Answer

Very interesting question

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Try... 🤣

RMSTitanic · Answer

Something other than what you do lol

Pterodon · Answer

Ask me out

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