Do some women not realize if they never make a move they can’t get who they want?

[Anonymous]

If you’re too lazy to make a move or when show interest. You can’t choose the man you want. Sure men will approach you… But are they not your type, is it not the guy you’re interested in, is it always at the wrong place at the wrong time, etc?

Then you need to get out there and make a move on the men you want otherwise you’re only stuck with who approaches you

[Molly1997]

If im interested I’ll definitely make a move 😙 I’m very straightforward

[Asker]

Good on you! Go get who you want. If you’re rejected it sucks but at least you’re not wasting time on someone whose into you.

If you get accepted. He didn’t move on and loose interest and find someone else and you’re sitting there crying wondering why he used to seem so interested and now he’s so happy with another girl

[Truthatanycost]

Some women's version of 'make a move' is to just stand around near a guy flicking their hair...

[Asker]

@Truthatanycost yeah I guess you could say that. Lol.

[sheikalana]

Is not about being lazy is probably fear of being rejected.

[Asker]

Well I get it. But still if you don’t make effort you never know

[Quackthulu2]

What I want knows that it needs to beg for my attention.

[Asker]

If someone has to beg for your attention most guys it shows she isn’t interested. I’m not entirely sure what you’re saying. But interest works both ways.

If you’re needy that’s fine. Just find a guy whose needy. But sometimes begging for attention can be a bit much. Especially if he isn’t someone you’re into

[Quackthulu2]

I think you misunderstand, but I could have been more clear. It’s a DS type of relationship.

[Asker]

Oh you’re into weird stuff. You are a sub sandwich? Like from Subway

[Quackthulu2]

Me? No, I don’t submit to anybody.

[Quackthulu2]

And no, quiznos is better

[Jazzy54]

No. I wish more men were bold. I’ve had enough of us (women) making the first move.

[Asker]

Well… same for you. Maybe you should be more bold and you will attract bold men. Or you can hate men and chase any self respecting man away

[Jazzy54]

Oh believe me, I’m bold and I have approached men. However, things have never worked out.

[Asker]

Well I’m sorry that it didn’t work out. You just haven’t met the right one.

But look at it this way. You got rejected. You’re not wasting your time waiting on a man who isn’t going to approach

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Most women do make a move. Except "making a move" is different for women than it is for men.
Most aren't gonna walk up to a guy, tell him he's cute and ask for his number. As far as she's concerned, that's his job.
She will, however, show him signs that she's interested and "give him the green light", so to speak.
(Only problem is, most men are too dumb to realize that's what she's doing)

[itsalyssaagain]

It’s not about getting who we want.


A man is supposed to lead. Most high value women want a man in the real sense — to be protective and provided for (not necessarily financially. Acts of service qualify too).


If you’re a beta man waiting for your dream girl to walk into your life and ask you out. You might as well ask her to get you flowers and pick you up on your first date. She can pay the bill too.


Guess what. Women aren’t attracted to that.

[itsalyssaagain]

Protected*

[Asker]

Any woman who says “high value male” tells me why they’re single

[Asker]

Well…. You don’t exactly know the women I know. Lol. But no I don’t sit and wait on someone. If I like someone enough to ask them out I do.

But you seem like someone who demands the world. Offers nothing in returns and cries because no man wants you. 😩

[Asker]

But that’s also the thing. You’re sitting around waiting on a man…. But you probably reject men. Because they’re not your type.

I don’t wait on someone. Because if I wanna choose who I can be with. I will go and pick and if I’m rejected oh well.

But I’m sorry. High value men… have a lot of options and usually go for the best one. Not some weirdo like you.

[itsalyssaagain]

Suit yourself 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m just telling the truth

[Asker]

It’s why you’re single. So you suit yourself… Men who are alpha males…. You could say. Have a LOT of options and are going to go for the best option the same as women who have lots of options.

They’re not gonna choose a woman like you who wants a man to do all this and you offer nothing in return

[Asker]

You aren’t all women. Speak for yourself. I don’t speak for all men. People say all men are a certain way…. And that’s not really true

[itsalyssaagain]

I mean that goes in one ear and out the other cause you don’t know me but sure. Whatever makes you sleep at night.

[Asker]

Uh…. You don’t know me either. So whatever helps you sleep at night. I doubt you do… No decent man will ever want you

[Asker]

And please don’t tell me you offer sex…. If that is all you offer. Only BETA and lower maybe even OMEGA men will do everything to get only sex.

Only beta men will jump through hoops for only sex

[Anonymous]

Well women can get away with this more than men can obviously

[Asker]

Well. Some people say men have it better some say women do. The grass is greener on the other side

[shades777]

When a woman engages at least you know for certain she will sleep with you va having to guess whwn I approach, best thing a man can do is be approachable because women are on high alert for red flags

[Asker]

Well. Not really that she will sleep with me. Women approach for romantic relationships and are waiting to have sex.

Just because someone approaches doesn’t mean they want sex

[shades777]

in my case it definitely does