Girls, Do women find it harder to approach a "serious" guy?

[alanalan]

I think I get a lot of looks from girls, but they never come up to talk to me. I always felt like I had to be like one of those talkative guys, but I don't like faking it.

Approaching as a "serious" guy is also weird, I feel like I'll just intimidate them.

[SueShe]

In general, girls are not really the ones approaching guys for dating purposes. It is usually the guys that want something from women because they tend to be more desperate than women are.

I personally think that there is not really a difference between a serious and unserious guy. I don't approach men at all but from what I see in life around me, 90% of the time, men want something from women and we all know what this "something" is.

I personally don't like talkative people because they tend to say a lot of nonsense just to be the center of attraction.

[WhitneySnow]

Girls are reluctant to approach shy guys sometimes cause they want the guy to make the first move. You may have to come out of your shell and make the first move. It takes willpower but if the person likes you it’s totally worth it.

[begum01]

If he seems too serious, it is difficult to start a conversation but ı believe balance is important, not being too serious and also not being too unserious

[Anonymous]

Well they tend to be boring to be around and that is the problem.