Trying to find my way with approaching women?

[Anonymous]

Well I have a little success earlier in my life, but once I got older it seemed to get worse. I have no particular set of techniques that I use to really get ahead with women. I tend to be more of the quiet person who will talk every once in a while. There are these two girls that I think are attractive and have no idea, if anyone of them find me attractive. I’m not even sure how to approach the subject with them and actually ask one of them out. When I’m around at least one of them talks about other guys and the other one is super quiet.
The funny thing the one that talks about other guys I realized shares a few things in common with me, while the other one I’m don’t know. Here is another kicker I work with them (which one of the states she wouldn’t date a coworker). Yeah that makes it a lot more complicated on top of figuring out if anyone them even is attracted to me. I’ve been told to be more confident.
It’s hard when I don’t really have much to say and not exactly the most outgoing person. There are people whom I’ve known for years who just realize certain things about me. So yeah I need some advice.

[Guy13]

At some point we have to grow out of the quiet guy. Quiet guy are often interpreted as not having confident which means they are undesirable. And dating people at work is quite risky too. But definitely, you have to break out of the shell of timidity.

[boggboss]

Advise on what nothing will happen aslong as u remain the quiet type lol

[msc545]

Don't date or try to date people you work with.