I've noticed some girls in relationships with super ugly guys. Im talking about U G L Y and they ain't got no alibi.
Even a girl i knew who i could easily rate a 10 had lowered her standards and dated some ugly guy after being with a guy women would easily find attractive.
-Do women date below their grade so as not to be challenged in a relationship when it comes to looks?
-Does dating someone who is less attractive make them feel more secure because they think that the ugly guy will be more loyal to her?
-Do women find it hard approaching attractive guys because they are intimidating?
Sometimes, but not often. If I'm dating someone who's really attractive with a great personality then it's more of a bonus to me than anything, but it's not a requirement. For me if you have average looks and a great personality I'm fine dating you. I wouldn't date someone who is ugly because that'd have to reflect on their personality in this case because I barely consider anyone ugly. When it comes to asking out a guy I'm not afraid of doing it even after getting rejected many times before due to me being too tall. :/
lol you're pretty I wouldn't worry, guys are usually very insecure. you can probably get any guy but again guys are hard to approach and can't read body language and need to be told directly, but even then they will often cop out because guys are like that.
Really attractive guys can be a bit intimidating, likely because they know how attractive they are and have the potential to use it to their advantage. Also, when you’re insecure, you can’t help but think that an attractive guy wouldn’t be interested anyway.
Attractive guys are a tad intimidating to me, but that doesn't stop me from talking to them. As for your questions, it all depends on the woman. Personally, I try to find somebody near my attractiveness (not ugly at all, but not totally gorgeous either).
you are thinking like a guy. women couldnt care less about your looks. gay dudes do. women actually - even enjoying some eye candy - can't stand a hot guy who is dumb as a door. we prefer an ugly guy or average man who can be a man than some model wannabe who mostly decorate the place.
"Women couldn't care less about your looks" That's a lie. And condescending. Yeah yeah, women just care about someones character and all men are superficial. Sure. Girls do care a lot about looks. You can tell by the way some girls look at you before you even talked to them. And when I was a teen and had acne, there were also girls who would say things like "ugly", "gay" or "Eeeewww!" while passing by on the street. You do all the shitty stuff men do too, but noone cares because you're small.
If you were the one reading your words you would see how damaged you are by whining about your bullying days. Oh... poor boy had a zit. That makes you worthy to be right about all women.
The teenager girls who laughed at your geek dorky acne face aren't the women we are talking. Have therapy man
"That makes you worthy to be right about all women." - I wasn't the one claiming to know how all women are. You categorized being superficial as typically male. You are the one who said "women do this, women think like that." And I need therapy, because I mentioned one thing that girls did that disproves your point? How does that make any sense? And why are you so pissed? Why are you insulting me? Because I said that women are not better than men? If you think women couldn't care less about looks, you're braindead. Simple as that. You're the one coming off as the one who needs a therapy.
A good looking guy can be wonderful too and a lot are, but as I guy I'll tell you we can't read body language and we need a girl to directly tell us she likes us or we feel insecure, and even then we get intimidated because girls also show attitudes because they get intimidated, so guys act indifferent and are afraid of being hurt because they're confused regardless of how much you like him.
Any guy if he found a loyal girl will mostly never cheat on her. You just need to make a judgement call and get to know us but then we feel intimidated because girls have attitudes because they feel intimidated too. lack of communication especially in the city or populated areas for some reason.
I think power in the universe is keeping hot people away from each other, dating ooglies is a bad decision but many hotties end up with them. Since these girls are being treated like royal shit I doubt they chose that life.
Yup its hard to communicated with attractive guy because they know they have more advantage to ugly guy but they have sense of humour than the attrative guy
There is a good way to be intimidated by someone and a bad. If I like someone and notice she's a little scared of me. I know when it is a bad scared like creeped out and that she likes me and is nervous and I like to kind of intimidate her a bit like get close and stuff like that.
Some are, some aren't I'm not. All my ex's modelled in some form or another. Currently the guy I'm dating could too.
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Yea, I get red and stutter, as if they know I wanna do the dirty with them even though I’m not thinking of anything sexual. I’m really socially anxious, though, and most women aren’t, so..
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But, no, I still won’t date someone I don’t find attractive. I’d rather be alone, personally.
I think low self esteem girls might but not very common. I mean whether a guy or girl every human wants somebody attractive. personality can also change but initially looks are important until emotional binding happens. it may be drugs, money, or some bizarre mental issue for a girl especially to date an ugly guy when she can have any guy even if she's average or below. I mean there can be someone for anyone but when it's obviously lop sided something is very off.
Yes and most of them can be a total jerk too since they know their value. I have yet to find a handsome dude who is loyal but I can find a hot girl who is one.
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