Are a girls’ attracted to chubby guys’ with chubby belly’s?

[Finchie40]

I hate that I put on some pounds and I am not really liking myself right now , I had to stop working out per doctors’ orders because I have a surgery coming up that is taking forever to get completed. I have 3 big tumors under my rib cage that need removed , they aren’t cancerous but they can damage my immune system if I don’t have them removed soon , My doctor said part of my weight gain is from these tumors. , , My doctor told
Me not to work out or I can mess myself up bad. Even though I am not liking myself too much at this point on my life , Attractive Girls’ are still flirting with me , Why? I don’t feel like myself whatsoever, I feel fat and disgusting

[Crimsyjo]

I expect it in men of our age group. Do you expect women in our age group to still have smooth flat stomachs? After kids and with age?

I once slept with a man whi had iron hard six pack and I didn't like it. He was like steel. I prefer softer. And I don't mind a little belly squidge. It's quite nice. Tho of course this is for relationship so other factors like personality, facial attractness, loyalty etc take a precedence over complete physical perfection.

[Pet68]

I don't have a "chubby" belly, and I'm 57.

[Crimsyjo]

@Pet68 you live in quite an active country. English men are pretty lazy lol

[sage2021]

It never bothered me back when I used to date a lot of guys.
One of them had a beer belly, but I looked beyond that because I liked his personality.
I don't mind the bigger tummy as long as he doesn't smash me by putting his full weight on me during intimacy. Usually they will not do that by being up higher and having his elbows bent and they support his weight so I didn't get squished.

[Pet68]

Maybe they don't mind it, but they're certainly not "attracted" to it. Having a big stomach is indicative of poor health and poor diet, someone with bad habits.

[Ladsin2]

No. They may accept it, they also may find it comforting. They don't find it attractive though.

[deniz_9]

i really dont think weight matters too much. hope the tumor situation gets resolved dude!! good luckkk🫶

[Finchie40]

Thank you , it’s definitely been heavy on my mind and I just want this over with and hope I will be ok. Surgery is scary

[silvermoon84]

Maybe some might not date you, but some will. Speaking for myself only, I am currently interested and talking to a big guy. I won’t say I’m dating him per se, because we haven’t labeled it but he’s really sweet, he’s funny and I love his accent (I’m a sucker for accents), so his body type doesn’t bother me. Also, I think at our age, a few extra pounds is to be expected. As long as a girl likes you as a person, I don’t the chubby part would be an issue. If it is, she’s not the one.

[Finchie40]

I agree at our age it’s common , me personally prefers a girl with some meat on her bones not to skinny and not too fat , just in between , from my experiences, sex is better lol

[itsannalee]

I don’t really mind it but if that supported with other features.

[IslaTheWitch]

you have to eat less if you can't work out...

and I don't pay much attention to appearances, but I definitely prefer healthy people

[Finchie40]

Oh trust me I been eating less , and I am still packing on pounds , why I can’t wait to get this surgery over with

[IslaTheWitch]

you still eat too much

[Finchie40]

Actually I don’t , my appetite has dropped tremendously after having my gall bladder removed , I just saw my doctor yesterday and he said it’s because of my tumors apparently they are pushing into my abdomen and that’s why I am feeling fat , he said once they are removed I will be back to normal and once I am healed I can start exercising again.

[chrissykerdock]

not really a turn off as you think personality goes a long way

[DreamiiNarwhals]

personally, I would value personality over looks

[Anonymous]

Yes, all the ladies love themselves some chub.

[NathanDavis]

some might be...

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Depends how big but I do also enjoy a thick man

[Anonymous]

A bit chubby is okay. Not obese

[Anonymous]

No, there not