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I am sick and tired of being infantilized as a young, childless, white autistic man (in my early-mid-20s). My personal and financial experiences are tougher than literally 95%(maybe even more) of people in my age range of 18 to 24. I still have no drivers license (let alone proof of insurance), I only work "part-time" (barely), I get paid literally $10 an hour if at all [x], I'm on SSI and that's my main source of income (the other being EBT food stamps), I go to school (take online classes for Web programming) part-time on Mondays and Wednesdays and do homework (thankfully it's not all that hard, unlike say English or Math)

[x] (the pay frequency is not consistent... it's $5 below minimum legal wage and in California... but my boss and my mom buddied up and agreed with just paying me $10/hour because of my other sources of income... one of my job coaches was shocked about it and thought it was against the law and I almost had an outburst about that.. but really there's nothing I can do about it besides quit, and my boss doesn't care about me either unless it's regarding a very situational moment, yeah he claims I'm his favorite employee in front of everyone but his actions show otherwise...)

I literally left the job coaching program designated for clients like me with disabilities because it turned out to be nothing but a joke and oftentimes traumatical for the clients with disabilities (I only got two jobs via that program and none of them worked for me personally, although I did return to that first one).

I would prefer $25 an hour as that's what most neurotypical people in their 20s are earning, but $20 is fine as long as it's a full-time job...

I’m 41 and I’m still in excellent shape. Reason being I exercise daily and I usually stick to a very healthy diet.

Anyway I became more self conscious about not showing my body off in pics or in public by my mid 30s. I don’t really feel comfortable going shirtless even at a beach/pool.

I do have one shirtless pic showing my abs off but it’s never something I will show a woman right away. I usually will show it once if she shows me a few suggestive pics (I don’t like nudes tbh but it’s nice to see what kind of body she has). Definitely not something I keep on social media though

Anyway I am well aware of the “creep” element guys my age have to watch out for. We got a lot less leeway vs guys in their early 20s on all of this.

But at the same time I’m wondering if I’m sometimes shortchanging myself by keeping an attractive asset I still have hidden. Is there a way to let a woman know about this without looking immature/creepy?

And yes I am well aware how women care about personality, drive, humor, money etc. Don’t need a lecture of on that. But this is one thing that can make me go from a 7 to an 8 on a pure physical attraction scale. But if done wrong it can look very bad.