Girl gave me extremely clear indication of interest and her contact info despite having a boyfriend, what is going on here?

[Anonymous]

I work with this girl, I was on shift with her last week and the entire time you could feel something between us. She would constantly stare at me and initiate conversation. She would take any opportunity to get very close to me physically. She would also constantly tease me. Nothing happened but we had another shift together the next week. She showed all the same indication of interest but this time she suggested that I give her my number. I start texting her and right off the bat she mentions she has a boyfriend. I ask her what the purpose of talking to me is and she says as a friend. I suggest the idea that it is probably not a good idea for us to be talking and that there should probably be nothing, not even a friendship. She then protests this idea saying her boyfriend allows it and I am like whatever we can just talk. I assumed though that since she has a boyfriend she would be hardly receptive to my texts but that was not true. She replies always almost right away, and actively tries to keep the convo going. So what is happening here? Am I just another option? Am I just attention and validation that her boyfriend doesn't give her enough of? I mean I would never even feel comfortable being in a relationship with this girl ever because now I know how she acts behind her boyfriends back. Women man, I tell ya, truly an enigma. Like I truly don't even care what the outcome is here, I just wanna understand it.

[PrettyPriya]

Hard to say what her mindset is. Whatever it is, it is disgusting behaviour. You are right in thinking that you would never want to be in a relationship with someone that clearly has no problem cheating or attempting to. At least you recognize that.

I never understood these people that do this sort of thing. Don't they realize that people aren't going to want to get into a relationship with a known cheater? Unbelievable.

Anyhow, who knows what she is thinking. She may be looking for something on the side. She might be preparing to leave her boyfriend and seeing what options are out there. Could even be to feed her need for attention.

These are all possible and also all guesses. No one will know but her what the true intention is behind it. The only thing that matters is you recognized her sleazy behaviour and decided you don't want a part in it.

I would just keep your interactions with her professional at work and ignore the advances. She will get the picture eventually.

[Asker]

She ended up breaking up with her boyfriend because of me and now insists we hang out and see what happens. I am down because she is beautiful, crazy, but beautiful.

[Pot8o]

I have had similar experiences with women where I thought they were interested, but turns out they just wanted to be "friends", i. e. use me.

B*tch, there is nothing in it for me. You're less interesting than my male friends, your only asset is your sex appeal, and if that is walled off, you can go f... yourself.

This could be different, but I wouldn't waste too much effort on some woman who just wants to take and never give.

[Guy13]

If she does that for you then she will do it to you... Stay away !!

[Guy13]

Does that make sense to you? And there are usually other signs...

[boggboss]

Your probobly just another avenue of attention she gets