Search Results: keep trying to get him back

This discussion started a few days back when I went to meet a few of my friends. One of them commented - "you could be a fuckboy!" (Referring to another guy). The same was said to me once.

😂 This is just for fun, I'll describe the two guys (one of them being me). You decide whom you would consider to be a fuckboy and whom would you be interested in.

Guy1 features:

Is a professional singer and has a mesmerizing voice

Is humble but doesn't have much time for you as he's mostly busy with work

Is somewhat rich. Owns a car. Runs a business.

Has a lot of contacts with famous people (because of his job).

Is vegetarian. But doesn't mind if you are non vegetarian, as long as you don't force him to try non veg.

5'6" height. Healthy physique. Curly noodle-like hair.

Has a lot of friends but most of them are friends only for his fame. Very few genuine friends.

Likes to keep up with trends and fashion.

Does not drink/smoke for his voice, but enjoys parties and dancing and will sing for you.

You might get a free meals at top 5 star hotels as he has a lot of connections there.

Guy2 features:

5'8" height. Lean stature. Defined jawline.

Looks nerdy and is somewhat nerdy. Wears glasses.

Is humble and polite and very patient.

Sweet talker and will take out time for you if he's interested.

Has a mediocre job. No assets.

Very popular among his peers for his nature and behaviour. Had a lot of friends male/female.

Not a vegetarian.

Has a bland fashion sense. Wears overfit clothes and doesn't keep up with trends.

People tend to trust him very easily. Has the "innocent trustworthy guy" face

Does not drink or smoke or enjoy dance parties.

Which one seems interesting to you? Whom would you be interested to date? One of them is me (and I think it's obvious which one)

My girlfriend is an alcoholic, I have been with her for 5 years and living together for a year.

Her problems worsened around the time of the pandemic and her depression has worsened since then and she has become dependent on alcohol.

She will be fine when I leave for work in the morning but when I come home in the evening she will be semi conscious on the floor and there will be 2-3 empty bottles in the recycling.

Way back (approx 10-12 years ago?) her father cheated on her mother and broke up the family unit. Years later her mother is now back living with the father though they are NOT in a relationship.

We have had numerous interactions with medical professionals and one issue that keeps coming up is the break up of the family caused by her father's infidelity and lying she says "he broke my heart".

I have tried to involve her parents in her recovery by keeping them informed and have asked the father to engage in counselling with my girlfriend to try and get her past this. She had had counselling for this issue for the past decade but he never engaged with her on it and no-one in the family is allowed to talk about it.

Her father has now taken a very aggressive stance towards me since I raised the subject. He has asked me to leave his daughter and suggested she break up with me as I am a 'Toxic' person. My question is do I stay and fight it out to get her the closure I really believe she needs or do I leave which will mean at 35 she goes back to living with her mother and father? I'm at a loss to know as I love her but not the person the alcohol is making her become.