So I met this guy out at a club like two months ago and I knew of him cause he went to the brother school of my all girls school and was kinda popular. He and I both had friends with us that were friends. He made it clear that he wanted to get to know me that night. He pulled me to the side and we chatted and made out for a little bit. no i've heard he's known for being a bit of a player so i was expecting for this to be a one time thing and he'd never speak to me again. However, the next morning i woke up to find that he had requested my snapchat. We chatted here and there and he was being really sweet. I went away for a week and he'd ask when i was getting back and stuff like that. When i did get back i went out again that weekend. I went up on the dance floor with my friends and realised i was right next to him. he had his back to me but i kinda said "oh shit" really loud and dragged my friend away cause i got nervous. he noticed me and it looked like he was trying to catch my eye. later that night he pulled another girl to the same spot he took me but kept looking over at me. after that night we continued to snap but only of pictures no talking. a couple weeks later and sent me a "what u up to?" message on snap and we started talking for like a day. Then when the conversation died off he took ages to respond again. next night he sends the same message, i answer, he responds with a one liner and the convo dies out and i get left on delivered again for hours. one afternoon he randomly starts replying really fast and we are sending flirty snaps to each other and then suddenly again nothing. the other night i get another "what u up to?" message i respond, he replys, i respond again and then he doesn't reply till the next day and he's ended the convo. basically, he takes ages to reply (his snapscore is going up by hundreds during these points), he only replys fast when he's drinking with his friends and he starts conversations and then ends them fast. i'm so confused
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Just from what you write and explain he does sound like a bit of a player. Either that or he pulled that other girl aside to make you jealous. If he is doing that it is really immature. If he has a reputation as a player then expect him to be just that. There isn't much you said that doesn't point to him being one. While there always can be some interest you have to ask yourself exactly what he is interested in getting out of you. Relationship? Sex? Who knows but I'd be cautious with this one.
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If something's smells fishy it probably is.
in my opinion, reputations don't pop up from nowhere. He's young and 'exploring'.
It ALL falls down to what you want for yourself.
Do you want to explore with him? Knowing that it may or may not end well...
Are you looking for something serious? (At 19 I'm guessing no)
Are you looking for casual?
Anyway, the first step is knowing what YOU want...
Then finding out what HE wants (by talking to him👀)...
If they both align, then great!
If not, it's not worth the time and effort and emotion.
Just saying🤷🏾โโ๏ธ
Quit using stupid Snapchat and watch all of these issues go away.
I wouldn't trust what people say, you should make sure what kind of person he is by getting to know him. What people say may only make you be more caotius. He seems interested and men can be bad at texting. Just ask him when hell ask you on a date or something, just give him a chance. Since youve been cold to him that time in the club he couldve thought you are not that into him.
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I don't understand why every girl cares so much about this kind of shittiest guy. Just remove him from your snap. It looks like you're the one who is obsessed with him and he just wants to keep you obsessed with him he doesn't love or like you.
In this gen you can't find love 😂he is attracted to you, and also busy. no worries
Of course he wants to bang you.
Talk to him
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