Is he interested or playing me?

hello_1234567

So I met this guy out at a club like two months ago and I knew of him cause he went to the brother school of my all girls school and was kinda popular. He and I both had friends with us that were friends. He made it clear that he wanted to get to know me that night. He pulled me to the side and we chatted and made out for a little bit. no i've heard he's known for being a bit of a player so i was expecting for this to be a one time thing and he'd never speak to me again. However, the next morning i woke up to find that he had requested my snapchat. We chatted here and there and he was being really sweet. I went away for a week and he'd ask when i was getting back and stuff like that. When i did get back i went out again that weekend. I went up on the dance floor with my friends and realised i was right next to him. he had his back to me but i kinda said "oh shit" really loud and dragged my friend away cause i got nervous. he noticed me and it looked like he was trying to catch my eye. later that night he pulled another girl to the same spot he took me but kept looking over at me. after that night we continued to snap but only of pictures no talking. a couple weeks later and sent me a "what u up to?" message on snap and we started talking for like a day. Then when the conversation died off he took ages to respond again. next night he sends the same message, i answer, he responds with a one liner and the convo dies out and i get left on delivered again for hours. one afternoon he randomly starts replying really fast and we are sending flirty snaps to each other and then suddenly again nothing. the other night i get another "what u up to?" message i respond, he replys, i respond again and then he doesn't reply till the next day and he's ended the convo. basically, he takes ages to reply (his snapscore is going up by hundreds during these points), he only replys fast when he's drinking with his friends and he starts conversations and then ends them fast. i'm so confused

Is he interested or playing me?
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