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since my high school days, all my male friends and relatives have been telling me that women who just want to fuck are never picky. that I should not worry about things like their personality, mental state, and many other things that you should worry about in dating because supposedly all they want to do is FUCK.

however not only does this sound too damn good to be true but I have met a lot of women who are completely the opposite of what I just said above. not only do so many women out there believe that sex is an automatic precursor to a relationship but. there are lots of women who do hookups but often times have ulterior motives. they will fuck all night with you but then want to cling on to you the following day and beyond. along the way, they will even feel entitled to get something out of you such as calling you nonstop whenever they feel needy all because you had sex with them. even worst they will even run to the authorities and file false rape alligations on you when they feel like you never met their demand.

till then I now double-check women twice or more before I ever get into a hookup thanks to what I've mentioned above. but I was wondering, am I still wrong? are my friends right?

This is for the guys. Is it normal for me to just have this hatred for women? I've been led on and rejected so many times previously to where I can't trust women. Part of me has this feeling of hate for women now and I think that eventually it might get to the point where I won't be the nice guy that I typically am. I dont look bad physically. I've been told my personality has been outstanding. I have my own business, and I've always just wanted too settle down. Yes I'm aware of the high divorce rate but I never really worry about it. Now I'm thinking to myself this hatred that is like a small ember building, and getting hotter. Women are no longer women I've always said. They claim to be to busy. Some are just slutty and shameful. Some are racists (white women). It's all about self sophistication. I see it too much and I get tired of hearing how they can't find a good man, or that they're tired of trying. I'm almost 30 and I feel like its over for me when it comes to dating. They say let the person come to you. I find that to be BS. I find myself looking at different photos of women who I could've been with but it never would happen. It's not a mid life crisis, but I feel like it's something that no one would understand. Women say they all aren't the same. I have yet to find any cloud of proof over so many years (10 years). So my question is it normal too hate women. Is it normal to have this feeling of rejection turn into anger.