Guys, Starting to hate women?

[cj0551]

This is for the guys. Is it normal for me to just have this hatred for women? I've been led on and rejected so many times previously to where I can't trust women. Part of me has this feeling of hate for women now and I think that eventually it might get to the point where I won't be the nice guy that I typically am. I dont look bad physically. I've been told my personality has been outstanding. I have my own business, and I've always just wanted too settle down. Yes I'm aware of the high divorce rate but I never really worry about it. Now I'm thinking to myself this hatred that is like a small ember building, and getting hotter. Women are no longer women I've always said. They claim to be to busy. Some are just slutty and shameful. Some are racists (white women). It's all about self sophistication. I see it too much and I get tired of hearing how they can't find a good man, or that they're tired of trying. I'm almost 30 and I feel like its over for me when it comes to dating. They say let the person come to you. I find that to be BS. I find myself looking at different photos of women who I could've been with but it never would happen. It's not a mid life crisis, but I feel like it's something that no one would understand. Women say they all aren't the same. I have yet to find any cloud of proof over so many years (10 years). So my question is it normal too hate women. Is it normal to have this feeling of rejection turn into anger.

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[Anonymous]

Your in the same situation as me. Now this can be a good thing if you do something well with it. Instead of hating women, let them all go and put that hatred in improving yourself. Honestly you are worth more then any of these girls that rejected. If you decide to use that frustration positively trust me you'll be doing the rejection later on when they'll be chasing you. If your truly a good guy then build your business, go to the gym, learn a hobby and get richer. When the time comes you'll have plenty of choices trust me.

[cj0551]

I do all that. I own a business, I'm always at the gym, I shoot guns at a range and typically help out my church. Yet I bring a good resume I still get rejected. The last woman I had talked to led me on to her. Then decided to go with someonee else. Me personally I don't talk to multiple women. I've learned it doesn't really help to truly get know someone.

[ShadowofRegret]

For every man who suffers like you described, there is a woman experiences the same treatment from guys, it is not really tied to gender, it is just there are a lot of bad people in the world, men and women alike, hence why there are so many men who hate women and women who hate men, it is a cycle of hatred that continues so long as each of the two genders allow the bad ones from the opposite gender to change them for the worst.

[cj0551]

My thing is I just dont understand how women can do things to guys like this and expect for us to get over it. Men having feelings too you know. My comment made too anonymous makes it clear what I'm going threw.

[ShadowofRegret]

I know, I didn't say we didn't, I'm just saying it goes both ways and tends to repeat itself.

But the ones who say you are supposed to just "get over it" aren't even worth being around, but not all of them are that way, I have met some very nice ones who hate how those types are.

There's a lot to make the two genders hate each other, but the main thing is when you meet the nice ones, always remember them for when you do have these kinds of experiences.

[joeblow123]

@shadowofregret

"I have met some very nice ones who hate how those types are"

What do the nice ones do to discourage the evil ones? Nothing. That's what. Women don't police each other the way men do. It's a shell game. Don't fall for their bullshit.

[SupremeWarlord]

More or less, I believe this is immature behavior, I went through the same thing in adolescence, but I didn't exactly "hate" women, I just forced myself to not fall in love anymore, I shut down any feelings that appeared towards a girl. But that was immature from me, that behavior is irrational I believe.

Same goes to you, maybe it's common to feel this way, maybe all guys and gals have this phase, but this can't possibly be good, specially for an adult, either for you or people around you, unless you keep that to yourself (if you don't do that, please start doing it now).

And this is being really unfair to women.