Can an average 22 years old woman win against a gorgeous looking 34 years old woman?

[Anonymous]

It may sound bad but I’m extremely jealous of my aunt. She’s 34 and a successful lawyer and she always have a lot of men going after her. She sometimes takes me with her on trips, but whenever I see a cute guy he immediately ignore me for her, and I feel that she’s shadowing me. Even my guy friends who are the same age as me, look at her and desire her more, but for me it’s not normal cause despite looking younger and being pretty, she’s still an old 34 years old woman, I don’t have a prettier face, but I can say that I am a 6, or a sexier body, but I always believed that a woman in her 20’s is always more desirable than a 30 years old Woman no matter how drop dead she is. My aunt look like Catherine zeta jones but with green eyes, and a hourglass figure

I may look crazy but I am starting to hate her even if she’s a good aunt, and she’s going to spend some days in our house, so we will hang out, together and I feel like shit when men start to notice her more. How can I be less jealous of her?

[sejla]

I know it is hard but you have to start feeling good about yourself to the point where you don't care. There will always be that beautiful woman in the room that will attract the majority of men. Forget about your looks and say what the heck and have fun. I wish I had known that when I was young because I wouldn't have let things like this get to me. If you look like you are having fun you might attract more people.

On these trips try to separate from your aunt some so you can meet people on your own. Be bold and approach people.

[Anonymous]

Ew, why so desperate for fleeting, fake male attention?

But, you really can’t compete with catherine zeta jones.

[xyz94]

No, not really, not unless the 34 year old had aged really badly, usually through too much sun exposure!

[Klein82]

The reality of life is there will always be someone better looking and more successful than you and its OK. You don't need to constantly compare yourself against others. Living in America, you have a natural advantage of nearly limitless thirsty dudes who will be more than happy to give you all the attention you could ever desire. Instead of focusing on who you don't like, just work with what you have. Want that extra level of attention? Makeup, a sexy outfit and CONFIDENCE will get you there.

[LoU_Hades]

At attractiveness level, very unlikely, unless the 34yo. was 10/10 in her prime and 'seasoned', [became more spicy] instead becoming older.
At psychological level, very likely she will win. A 34 yo. woman who is attractive can appear very feminine in perception of men.

[ShadowofRegret]

Just realize that there are guys who like older women, and there are guys who like younger women.

You cannot really attract the guys she attracts, who prefer older women, because then you are trying to compete with her on her field, but likewise, the guys that you attract, who prefer younger women, she would not be able to attract, because they want younger.

So just go out and find the guys who prefer younger and you will most likely receive the same kind of attention.

[art84]

Maybe take advice from your aunt in how to attract guys. Like wear makeup to get attention from guys to feel better about yourself. Personally I would take a 22 year even if her face wasn't pretty but she had a great personality and was fun to be around. Maybe those younger guys who like your aunt just like older women and find her more attractive then.

[winterfox10]

Hot is hot, no matter what age it is. The best thing you can do for yourself is work on your style and confidence. Men are drawn to your aunt because of the aura she gives off; you need to learn to give off that irresistible aura of your own!

[MannMitAntworten]

No. Definitely your aunt will prevail regardless of her being, "still an old 34 years old woman." Also, if she has a terrific personality too, that will take her even further. Just how men are.

Don't bring your men around her.

[JSmuve]

Gorgeous will, 9 times out of 10, beat average. Even if that average is younger because age doesn't matter as much as youthfulness does.

But am I to believe that she became an aunt at 12? The fuck happened there for that to happen?

[Ripper_E]

Relationship wise, I'd be more likely to choose the 22 year old. In terms of just sexual and physical attraction, if I feel more attracted to a 34 year old or 45 year old, I'm choosing them.

[Iron_Man]

Win at what a Beauty competition? or the career? Obviously the 34 year-old attorneys going to win hands down because she's already established at such a young age

[Asker]

I thought men don’t care about women being established

[Iron_Man]

Some men don't like it because it takes the power out of their hands when they're dating them and the woman becomes a shot caller because she's cocky and she's doesn't want nobody telling her what to do.
The man is used to Leading and paying for everything now all of a sudden you got a girl that's making more money than him and she's a shot caller and real cocky

[Avicenna]

I'd suggest talking to her about guys, finding out how she does it.

There are plenty of guys who will prefer a younger woman, period.

[SkinnyThickLover]

I think that you can and I would rather have you. The cute side girls are way better then the main ones who have all the guys.

[Jesse0]

My mom is always approached by younger men so kinda wrong there but you should ask her how to look more attractive.

[October808]

You're not mature enough to stand shoulder to shoulder with you aunt.

[Ihavenoclue_]

Most guys like younger, pretty girls. That is weird.

[PrinceOfAljazeeeeraa]

duh, who wants some 30+ years old women anyways
NOBODY.

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, no, she can't. 30 and up, is a womans prime

[Ephemera1]

Maybe you’ll look like her at the age

[alance99]

Yes she can win and age has nothing to do with it

[Anonymous]

Everyone ages. Makes no sense to me

[Anonymous]

I will never understand women.

[NerdInDenial]

No in your scenario.

[Anonymous]

No way.