I'm starting to hate women in general?

[Anonymous]

I get sex and I am a functioning normal person. Let's clear that up.

I'm really trying to make an effort to not become bitter. Almost every woman I've ever met seems to fit this criteria of being irrational and unbearable. I got in a relationship with a girl and when I lost my job and having a hard time for a little she just left me and said I don't make enough money. This was the same girl that said she was in love with me. Their emotions are all over the place.

I wasn't lazy and I did get back on my feet. I was just in a bad place but as soon as that happened she turned stone cold and left.

I did get in another relationship some time after and she ended up being fucking nuts checking my texts all the time. I'm just trying to have a good time and take someone along on my journey with me. Can't seem to find that with women.

It also seems like the more I treat women like absolute shit the more sex I get as well. They say one thing but actually mean the other.

Every woman I've ever had in my life is like this and women in general are beginning to annoy the hell out of me.

I live in the US and feminism has taken over and we have a bunch of stuck up bitches who are average at best and take all the perks of being a man yet won't take the downfalls of being a man with it. It's just a win/win for them I guess.

I'd like to settle down one day. I really would like to meet a nice woman. I feel myself becoming bitter. Why is that 95% of women just piss me off? I don't want to just sleep around my whole life.

Can an any women sympathize and offer some any advice? Any guys understand my struggle?

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+1 y

ridiculous. I'm simply expressing some frustration and want some feedback. If a girl expressed some of that frustration then I wouldn't attack her. Maybe I'm doing something wrong who knows. You telling me I'm a loser in 1000 different ways is only validating my point.

[AleDeEurope]

First of all, love doesn't exist, so don't expect a woman to stay because she told you she loved you. If you're no longer giving her what she wants in a relationship, she's out. Guys do that too.

Yes, of course treating women in a "bad" way will get you sex. That's no secret at all... problem is, it'll only get you shitty women. Shitty people attract other shitty people.

Are you an asshole? Are you a jerk? A cheater? A wife beater? There's hundreds of men out there who would say yes to those questions, so does that mean that you're that too? Do you want a stranger to just look at you and be like "he's a man, he's probably and asshole who beats women"? I doubt you want that, especially if you know you're good.
Women are the same. Yes, of course there's cunts out there, we know that, women know that too, but imagine how frustrating it is for the good women, the 100% loyal ones, the ones who put their guy first, the ones that will die for their man, to hear guys think of them as the worse and to know they're being hated on simply because other women have done them wrong.

You don't wanna be lumped in with the shitty men, so don't lump every woman with the shitty ones. You're honestly gonna miss on SOOOOOO much if you decide to hate women. Change the way you meet women, and you'll find better women.

[Unit1]

Hey, I do understand where you are coming from. I've kind of been there done that.
The reality is, that nice women (and nice men) are really scarce these times. A lot of low quality crapware are common and among this bunch a good quality item can be found. Same with women and men. It is a hard search and it is a normal part of life.

Me? I haven't had sex ever and never had a girlfriend and never kissed. At 22!
I care little but it gets sad at times over this fact. This is life.

Just keep doing what you are doing but try to appreciate the good from the women while abandoning them when they turn unnecessarily unpleasant.
I was once there too, a blind misogynist but until it was the women, who showed me their support, they turned me into a philogynist actually, a complete lover of women. Not all women of course but just generally ladies.

Do not let yourself be fooled by the lot. The treasure may be found or you may stumble on it. No guarantees, so keep living on. Hope that helped you.

[RaeSheBae]

It's upsetting I understand we all went to some stuff like that.
My advice for you is, take some time for yourself (it looks like you are always with some girl). Just focus on yourself. Go work and save some money so you can get out of your town for a while and go on a great trip this year.
Talk with your guys, go out with them, play sports outdoors, go on adventures and forget about all these women.
Think about how you met them, what they had in common and find out why you keep attracting bitches like that.
After you find the problem, solve the problem and when you ready try different ways, different places maybe you'll meet someone special.
For now just take some time off, exercise and heal yourself from all the bullshit you went through. Forgive and forget it's another life lesson. Don't insult all women because you met the wrong ones so far, have some hope and be optimistic. Don't be desperate for love, relax a little bit, take care of yourself let the girls chase you. You are still young and you will find the right woman. Right now you are angry just don't try to be with someone right away because you would not be stable enough. if you meet someone tomorrow just take it slow, expect less and just relax and see what happens.
Good Luck

[Pipi769]

I am starting to hate guys, so I can kinda understand you. You see in my case, all the boyfriends I've had were either assholes, or players, they wanted me for the sex and they made me feel insecure all the time. The ones that didn't do that, had other issues. They were kinda weird or even manipulative. My longest relationship (1 and a half year) was a complete jackass, who didn't give me any time for myself, he was emotionally abusive and it's because of him that I didn't get accepted into a university. On top of that, he just cheated on me on the first chance he got and just left. I'm starting to think I'll never find the right one, and that sucks..

[SHEKNOWS]

I'm sorry you've found yourself with the gold diggers ​but I think any girl that is willing to sleep with a man that treats her like "absolute shit" isn't a stable partner to find yourself with. So I'll advise you try out a different pick up method.

I also apologize that feminism has lost its reasoning and consists of a bunch of psychos and lesbians that want to destroy man.

[OjosOscuros2]

I mean if you go around looking for gold digging, hit it and quit it, beauty queen wannabes, materialistic, got no class or education type girls then yeah it's no wonder you're getting tired. Maybe go find a humble looking one at church? Or you think you're too good for that?

[Asker]

I'm really not looking for that type at all. I'm educated myself and don't hang out with low class people. I'm not religious either. It's not that I think I'm too good for that. I just don't believe and I'm entitled to that.

[OjosOscuros2]

Well in case you're interested, that's typically where you'll find the non-feminists more traditional, classy, smart girls. Outside of that, I can't give you any recommendations.

[confusedgirlxox]

Just because a girl is pretty does not mean she's dumb and uneducated and good girls don't only hang around church :)

[OjosOscuros2]

@confusedgirlxox yeah I agree, lots of girls are pretty, but notice how I described a certain type of woman... beauty queen wannabes are not known for being too bright because that's all they obsess about. Also, im sure this guy has dated his fare share of women, but he hasn't thought about looking in other places. He complained about meeting too many feminists, and the only ones who would be anti-feminist would be traditional girls who hold biblical values of putting men and family ahead of their own needs. Maybe a far fetched suggestion, but it's a suggestion nonetheless.

[BasicFlake]

The bitterness is self defeating and only in realising that can you get past it and move on to something valuable. You have taken on a jaded view based on negative experiences that you are using to define what is the norm. However, often we are the cause of our negative experiences because of our behavioural patterns, even when we don't realise it. There are plenty of decent women out there and plenty of people having decent relationships. In the real world, as an adult who is working and living independently, the whole radical feminist agenda is barely even visible. Nobody is talking about it, not girls, not men. Everyone is just getting on with their life.

[torken]

Oh wow, you treat women like shit and only end up with shitty women... interesting.

[Asker]

It's just a pattern I noticed. That's not who I really am.

[Robertinho]

I thought i was alone... wow, now i realize im not alone, i feel your pain man, welcome to the unfortunate club. :-(

[confusedgirlxox]

It seems like YOU are attracted to insecure women. Look at the women you are choosing to ask out and ask yourself why they all seem the same. A confident girl who is secure with herself and has her own job and makes her own money is not going to leave you when you are having a hard time, she's not going to be jealous and insecure 24/7 because she likes herself and knows that you chose her for a reason.

[sugarxrush]

I understand you completely. It's not that all women are like that, most are, as are most men. The human race in general is very disappointing.
All I can say is don't lose hope.

[Anonymous]

Get out of your head, treat girls nicely cause it is the right thing and find more to life than women.

[Asker]

I think I'm a pretty good guy. I have strong morals and was raised in a good family. I'm educated and I think I'm pretty good looking. I understand that there is more to life than women but it would be nice to find one that I can actually connect with other than sex. That's not the kind of guy I want to be for the rest of my life.

[Opinion Owner]

Treating girls bad for sex doesn't sound like strong morals to me. However, it is good that you are wanting better things, and someday you'll find someone

[Asker]

You've never let out frustration and been a bitch to a guy? I'm human. It's a pattern I've noticed and that's it.

[Opinion Owner]

Depends a lot on if frustration leads to yelling or blows, matey.

[Pomegranate139]

Maybe it's just the girls where you live. Try another city or so.

[victoria28]

there are still many flowers in the garden, maybe you were just unlucky to pick the decaying ones..

[Muhammad1999]

When you pick one in the garden , it will decay over time

[victoria28]

depends what flower you treasure the most, more on like, what flower compliments you

[Fudgiecola]

Yeah... girls are like that... sorry my friend they just don't do the prince thing

[Dog19]

Let's say you're boyfriend of 2 years lost his job until then looked at you and sobbed. - he has nowhere to go and he's scared.

Would you leave him?

[Fudgiecola]

Um.. No

[Fudgiecola]

I wouldn't leave I'd stay

[lord_chilled]

The women in your region seem to be the low quality type. Try fishing somewhere else.

[Muhammad1999]

Dude not all women are like this , maybe just western women are.

[Anonymous]

i don't blame you, the way women are these days i don't blame any man for hating them.

[Dog19]

I agree

[Anonymous]

Present u guy with no game blaming everyone for his faults. So sad u also hate ur mother too that raised u

[Asker]

Look I'm really not trying to blame the issue all on women and I did want some insight if I was doing something wrong. I'm not a bad person. My mother is proud of me. Can't a guy express any frustration without a girl throwing insults at them? I'm being genuine here and all you can do is just throw rocks at me.

[Asker]

I have an active sex life and I am single so I guess I do have some game.

[karahiri]

Sounds like bad choices tbh

[Leandri]

Maybe you just haven't found the one yet

[Anonymous]

Then go gay !!

[Asker]

I'm 100% straight.

[Opinion Owner]

You getting tired with women.. you said almost 95% are bad... then you probably want to try guy instead

[Asker]

That doesn't make me gay. That makes me frusterated with the fact that I can't find a girl for something other than sex. This is just proving my point.

[Anonymous]

dont hate them all