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I 23F have been with 32M since November 2022. His last relationship was with someone one year older than me which should have been first my red flag.

I have introduced boyfriend to a handful of friends. He becomes so drunk and high (unbeknownst to me) that he essentially becomes mute! If he does manage to muster out a few words his speech is very slurred. I had to carry him home to bed and would pop back out to continue the night on with my own friends on both occassions. boyfriend has never seen the issue with either night and doesn’t understand how it would embarrass me.

My friends were more than surprised when I revealed he was 32 and they were very quick to say he comes off as very young and immature. The last thing I want to do is introduce him to my immediate family out of fear he’ll embarrass me AGAIN!

His house is filthy and he’s spoilt! Mummy and daddy have paid his bills and insurances up until this August. When it came to paying his first electricity bill and car insurance renewal he was none the wiser and needed guided help. He has a degree in IT and software development.

He has been driving more than several years and inherited his car basically brand new. His dad always did the insurance and brought it to the garage for repairs and paid for them. Mummy has even offered to clean the house he also inherited several times but thankfully, boyfriend says no.

I asked him to help me clean his house one Sunday after I woke two hours early to get started and he give me the “you’re not my mum” and “stop annoying me” speech yet suggested another time I come out a day early to clean while he worked. The house is filthy, destroyed in mould, and smells of damp. Instead of buying new pillows for the bed, he wants to try and wash them first (despite being covered by mould and pillows being cheap).

Even when we text, he types like a child. He’s 32 but it’s still ‘bby’ not ‘baby’, ‘meh’ instead of ‘me’, and the conversation isn’t a whole pile of stimulating typically.

So yesterday he was telling me that he had to work late. Doesn't make any sense because he had no reason to work late to my knowledge and I know his schedule pretty well. There's only certain times that he has to work late and from what he communicated yesterday it sounded like a usual work day.

Come the morning he's very standoffish response more as if we are friends rather than people that were dating each other or thinking of dating each other seriously and his communication is s***** in comparison to usual. Like it's not as engaging or anything.

Like by all assumptions you could say that he's been cheating. But as he's such a poor communicator - like it's not often he initiates text - it's hard to say and I really don't know if I should reach out or just sit and see what he does

Most of the people on my social media are acquaintances or family, plus some randos (on IG). On FB, it’s a lot of people I went to hs & middle school with. I tend to get more likes on IG but this weekend was a shocker. I went to this event where I met a bunch of celebs & most of the people that liked my posts were strangers (I’m usually private but go public when I meet celebs to tag them in my posts with the slight chance they’ll acknowledge it). When I first met this famous group last yr a lot of followers that I actually knew liked my post but I mean this weekend I met a bunch of famous people & they saw my stories but no one acknowledged my posts except the people that saw it bc I tagged the celeb/used a few hashtags. You’re wondering how this relates to anxiety but it does make me anxious & I don’t want to come across as desperate for attention. I really don’t have a lot of followers compared to most of the people on my friends list, I’ve always felt kind of invisible in that sense. Never get the “dms” from guys like other women have, I’m told I’m attractive & this post sounds superficial but does anyone relate?